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MARRIAGE MISDIAGNOSIS: Putting Reconciliation Before Rebuilding Trust

MARRIAGE MISDIAGNOSIS: Putting Reconciliation Before Rebuilding Trust

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 16, 2022 | Resolving Conflict

What if too much marriage advice puts the cart before the horse, demanding reconciliation before trust has been rebuilt? We’ve been looking this month at how so often evangelical marriage advice puts the emphasis in the wrong place, and thus misdiagnoses the...
Amazing News About Great Sex Rescue–The Tide is Turning!

Amazing News About Great Sex Rescue–The Tide is Turning!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 14, 2022 | Making Sex Feel Good, Theology of Marriage and Sex

You guys! Guess what happened! Christianity Today actually covered The Great Sex Rescue–and it was phenomenal! A few weeks ago, just after we recorded the podcast about how the authors we critique have been either ignoring us or doubling down and saying awful...
Why Is Marriage Advice Aimed at Healthy Couples?

Why Is Marriage Advice Aimed at Healthy Couples?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 15, 2022 | Abuse

Do you know who reads marriage books and seeks out marriage advice? Usually it’s people having trouble with their marriage! And yet often the advice that’s given isn’t helpful for unhealthy couples, and can even be harmful. And then authors say,...
We Read “The Act of Marriage” So You Don’t Have To!

We Read “The Act of Marriage” So You Don’t Have To!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 9, 2020 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

The Act of Marriage is the book I once drowned in a bathtub. When I wrote The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex, I told the story of reading a sex book before I was married that turned me into a nervous wreck. It gave such explicit directions about what you were...
Does the Way We Talk about Women’s Libidos Make Women Have No Libido?

Does the Way We Talk about Women’s Libidos Make Women Have No Libido?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 11, 2019 | Libido

Personally, I think women’s libidos is largely in our heads. As in, what we think about libido determines our libido. So what is it that we’re told to think? Well, let’s do a comparison here. Decades ago, boys took a lot of math and did most of the...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!