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Let’s Stop Excusing Sexual Assault on a Technicality

Let’s Stop Excusing Sexual Assault on a Technicality

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 6, 2024 | Abuse

Remember Bill Clinton and it depends on the definition of “is”? In the 90s, in the middle of the Monica Lewinsky scandal (which, in retrospect, is so full of uneven power dynamics), Bill Clinton denied having an affair based on a silly definition. And,...
Bible Baptist Tabernacle: The Pastor Who Said Women in Shorts Deserve To Be Raped

Bible Baptist Tabernacle: The Pastor Who Said Women in Shorts Deserve To Be Raped

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 28, 2024 | Faith

Feeling Responsible for Her Own Sexual Assault: A Youth Group Case Study

Feeling Responsible for Her Own Sexual Assault: A Youth Group Case Study

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 31, 2023 | Parenting Teens

I read a story about how a youth group culture contributed to a young woman feeling guilty about her own assaults. I’d like to share it today, because it fits in to everything we’ve been talking about with She Deserves Better, our new book that launches...
Did David Rape Bathsheba? Plus Why the Answer Matters

Did David Rape Bathsheba? Plus Why the Answer Matters

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 15, 2023 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

For the last week, social media has been debating whether David raped Bathsheba.  It erupted anew when Owen Strachan, a staunch patriarchalist, called out abuse advocate and lawyer Rachael Denhollander, saying that she was wrong to say that the David/Bathsheba story...
Can Pastors Please Stop Objectifying Women in Sermons? A response to Jonathan Pokluda

Can Pastors Please Stop Objectifying Women in Sermons? A response to Jonathan Pokluda

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 24, 2023 | Men's Corner, Sexual Intimacy

Last week, there was a Twitter dust-up because megachurch pastor Jonathan Pokluda objectified women in a sermon. The clip went viral, and this tweet by @laurchastain22 (Lauren Chastain) made huge splashes among Christians: Them: you just need to try another church!...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!