She Doesn’t Need to Put Out. That’s Not All He Thinks About! How Our Sexuality Got Derailed

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 19, 2021 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Today’s post is by Dorothy Littell Greco, author of Making Marriage Beautiful and Marriage in the Middle, a great book about marriage in midlife. Today she adapts an excerpt for us from Marriage  in the Middle about how faulty teaching and cultural conditioning...

Women’s Day: Keith’s Message to Those Harmed by Evangelical Marriage Teaching

by Keith Gregoire | Mar 8, 2021 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

My husband Keith hasn’t written a post in a while, because for the last two months we were busy writing The Good Guy’s Guide to Great Sex together. But he really wanted to be the one to write the post today in honour of Women’s Day. I couldn’t...

What if the Evangelical View of Sex is Priming Us for Sex Scandals & Abuse?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 19, 2021 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

We read through the best-selling evangelical sex and marriage books when we were writing The Great Sex Rescue–and in many cases we were thoroughly dismayed. What was said about sex in those books was toxic. Last weekend, I wrote a thread that blew up on Twitter,...

The “You’re Not Methadone for His Porn Addiction” Podcast

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 4, 2021 | Pornography

You cannot defeat porn by becoming methadone for your husband’s porn addiction. And yet that’s exactly what Every Man’s Battle tells women to do! “Your wife can be a methadone-like fix when your temperature is rising.” “Once he tells you...

12 Ways to Help Christian Men Overcome Lust

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 1, 2021 | Pornography

For twenty years now Christians have been inundated with news about “every man’s battle” and how every man struggles with lust. But what if our approach is part of the problem? I believe that because we talk about how all men struggle with lust,...