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Women’s Day: Keith’s Message to Those Harmed by Evangelical Marriage Teaching

Women’s Day: Keith’s Message to Those Harmed by Evangelical Marriage Teaching

by Keith Gregoire | Mar 8, 2021 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

My husband Keith hasn’t written a post in a while, because for the last two months we were busy writing The Good Guy’s Guide to Great Sex together. But he really wanted to be the one to write the post today in honour of Women’s Day. I couldn’t...
What if the Evangelical View of Sex is Priming Us for Sex Scandals & Abuse?

What if the Evangelical View of Sex is Priming Us for Sex Scandals & Abuse?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 19, 2021 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

We read through the best-selling evangelical sex and marriage books when we were writing The Great Sex Rescue–and in many cases we were thoroughly dismayed. What was said about sex in those books was toxic. Last weekend, I wrote a thread that blew up on Twitter,...
The “You’re Not Methadone for His Porn Addiction” Podcast

The “You’re Not Methadone for His Porn Addiction” Podcast

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 4, 2021 | Pornography

You cannot defeat porn by becoming methadone for your husband’s porn addiction. And yet that’s exactly what Every Man’s Battle tells women to do! “Your wife can be a methadone-like fix when your temperature is rising.” “Once he tells you...
12 Ways to Help Christian Men Overcome Lust

12 Ways to Help Christian Men Overcome Lust

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 1, 2021 | Pornography

For twenty years now Christians have been inundated with news about “every man’s battle” and how every man struggles with lust. But what if our approach is part of the problem? I believe that because we talk about how all men struggle with lust,...
Lust Isn’t Every Man’s Battle–And We’ve Got the Numbers! A Podcast

Lust Isn’t Every Man’s Battle–And We’ve Got the Numbers! A Podcast

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 28, 2021 | Podcasts

What if we actually ask men about lust–and it turns out that the majority don’t struggle with it? That’s the focus of our podcast today–what does the “all men struggle with lust” message do to us? Before we get started, a quick...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!