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Tea and Tent Pegs, “All Men Struggle with Lust”, and More!

Tea and Tent Pegs, “All Men Struggle with Lust”, and More!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 19, 2021 | Bare Marriage

This week has been taken up by two things: talking about the problems with the “all men struggle with lust” message, and telling you all about our Tea and Tent Pegs event! It’s time for another edition fo my Friday Round-Up, where I cover...
Women Shouldn’t Have to Suffer So Men Don’t Feel Shame

Women Shouldn’t Have to Suffer So Men Don’t Feel Shame

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 17, 2021 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

The results on Instagram about how the “all men struggle with lust” message affected you dealt a big emotional wallop on me. I told you about it yesterday, but I’d like to explore it a little more today. I received hundreds upon hundreds of answers...
How Did the “All Men Struggle with Lust” Message Affect You?

How Did the “All Men Struggle with Lust” Message Affect You?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 16, 2021 | Libido, Pornography

The “All men struggle with lust” message is a toxic one. On Tuesday I don’t write blog posts anymore–but I published something on Facebook this morning that I thought I’d move over here as well! Yesterday I asked in my Instagram stories...
Purity Culture, Consent, and More! Some Podcasts to Fill up Your Day

Purity Culture, Consent, and More! Some Podcasts to Fill up Your Day

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 1, 2021 | Bare Marriage

For the last six months, I’ve been recording at least 3 other podcasts a week–besides my own! It’s been super exhausting, but super fun. I did need to pay attention to the exhaustion factor, though, and so Keith and I are camping for two and a half...
She Doesn’t Need to Put Out. That’s Not All He Thinks About! How Our Sexuality Got Derailed

She Doesn’t Need to Put Out. That’s Not All He Thinks About! How Our Sexuality Got Derailed

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 19, 2021 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Today’s post is by Dorothy Littell Greco, author of Making Marriage Beautiful and Marriage in the Middle, a great book about marriage in midlife. Today she adapts an excerpt for us from Marriage  in the Middle about how faulty teaching and cultural conditioning...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!