How NOT to Be an Entitled Husband or Entitled Wife

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 9, 2023 | Resolving Conflict

What is it that actually kills a marriage? In the Christian world, “lack of commitment” is often named as the culprit that brings a marriage to an end. I don’t agree. Even if you didn’t have commitment, if the marriage was great, why would anyone leave?Sure, every...

When He Deliberately Ignores Your Pleasure: What to Do When Sex Has Become One-Sided

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 9, 2022 | Making Sex Feel Good

Sex is supposed to be mutual and pleasurable for both. Your pleasure is supposed to matter. Unfortunately, though, we have a 47 point orgasm gap among evangelicals, meaning that 95% of men report almost always or always reaching orgasm during a sexual encounter,...

How Do We Make Sure These Two Horrific News Articles Stop Happening?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 2, 2022 | Abuse

I read two terrible news articles over the weekend that had me grieving and got me all riled up. News article #1: A woman reports her rape to her Christian college, and is then is banned from campus for having pre-marital sex. NBC News explains what happened: When...

How Can Men Fix Their Sex Lives if They’ve Gone Downhill?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 28, 2022 | Libido

What if a guy knows he’s gone down a bad path with his sex life–but he doesn’t know how to get back? Like many of you probably did, I spent much of the weekend watching the invasion of Ukraine by Russia unfold on social media. There were some heartwarming and...

Can We Have a More Balanced Conversation about Oral Sex?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 3, 2021 | Making Sex Feel Good

Have you ever noticed that when we talk about oral sex in the Christian community, we usually frame it as something he wants and she should give? In that now infamous Edinburgh sermon that went viral, for instance, Mark Driscoll talked about how a woman should...