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Why Do Men Cheat? New Research Spotlight!

Why Do Men Cheat? New Research Spotlight!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 8, 2025 | Podcasts, Research

Let’s look at some interesting new research studies on infidelity and more! Every now and then we like to do a research spotlight podcast where we pull a bunch of new studies and see what they say about the things that we talk about all the time here at Bare...
Why Do Evangelical Women Not Want to Marry Evangelical Men?

Why Do Evangelical Women Not Want to Marry Evangelical Men?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 5, 2025 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Are evangelical women hesitant to marry evangelical men? Rebecca and I talked about this on a podcast recently, but I’ve had so many emails since that I wanted to make sure we had this written out on the blog too! Plus I wanted to include a bunch of your comments! (I...
PODCAST: Why Are Evangelical women REfusing to Marry Evangelical Men?

PODCAST: Why Are Evangelical women REfusing to Marry Evangelical Men?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 10, 2025 | Podcasts, Preparing for Marriage

Evangelical men can’t get married.  And it’s all women’s fault, according to Al Mohler, president of Southern Baptist Theological Seminary. It’s a “crisis”, a “five-alarm fire”. It’s bad. In his podcast “The...
PODCAST: Emotions Aren’t Feminine (and Men Should Be Emotionally Healthy Too)

PODCAST: Emotions Aren’t Feminine (and Men Should Be Emotionally Healthy Too)

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 3, 2025 | Connecting, Podcasts

Women aren’t more emotional and men more logical That’s the rhetoric that we often hear, but men are just as emotional as women–they just don’t necessarily process those emotions as well. Chapters 7 and 8 in our new book The Marriage You Want...
Our Attitude to Women in MInistry is the Exception, Not the Rule

Our Attitude to Women in MInistry is the Exception, Not the Rule

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 31, 2025 | Faith, Theology of Marriage and Sex

with thanks to Brazos Press and Becoming the Pastor’s Wife for sponsoring this post My grandparents met in Bible college. It was the 1930s in Manitoba, and they were both approaching 30. They weren’t fellow students, though.  She was the teacher.   My...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!