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PODCAST: Celebrating Episode 300 with The Best of Becca!

PODCAST: Celebrating Episode 300 with The Best of Becca!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 16, 2025 | Podcasts

I can’t believe we’re 300 episodes in to Bare Marriage! We began the podcast in January of 2019, and for the first dozen or so episodes it was just me. We actually started two weeks before that fateful day that I read Love & Respect and changed the...
Making Patriarchy Pretty: How Christian Social Media Sells Patriarchy

Making Patriarchy Pretty: How Christian Social Media Sells Patriarchy

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 6, 2025 | Connecting, Theology of Marriage and Sex

The medium is the message. And when it comes to Christian patriarchy, the medium is super pretty right now! Marshall McLuhan, a Canadian sociologist, said that famous “medium is the message” line sixty years ago now. He was explaining how the medium that we hear a...
What Is Submission in Marriage? Hint: It’s Not Obedience!

What Is Submission in Marriage? Hint: It’s Not Obedience!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 22, 2025 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

What does submission in marriage mean? The verses in Scripture addressing wives and talking about submission are some of the most weaponized in the Bible. They’ve been used to tell women that it’s wrong to correct your husband (as Emerson Eggerichs does in...
Women: Are You Following Jesus Or Your Husband?

Women: Are You Following Jesus Or Your Husband?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 10, 2025 | Resolving Conflict, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Who should we ultimately follow? I’m wrapping up my submission series soon, and today’s post gets to the heart of the matter: too often we tell women that once they’re married, their husband stands in the place of Jesus in their lives. On Monday we...
Is Submission in Marriage Really About Breaking Ties When You disagree?

Is Submission in Marriage Really About Breaking Ties When You disagree?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 8, 2025 | Resolving Conflict, Theology of Marriage and Sex

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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!