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Should You Prioritize Sex? Why Frequency Is the Wrong Measure

Should You Prioritize Sex? Why Frequency Is the Wrong Measure

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 2, 2025 | Sexual Intimacy

You shouldn’t prioritize sex in your marriage.  That’s how we open chapter four of our new book The Marriage You Want. Instead, we argue, you should prioritize the ingredients of great sex.  I’m going to talking about this further in a FREE webinar...
PODCAST: Why Did You Believe the Toxic stuff? The Year of Putting Dumb Behind Us!

PODCAST: Why Did You Believe the Toxic stuff? The Year of Putting Dumb Behind Us!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 9, 2025 | Podcasts, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Why did we all get sucked in to toxic teachings about sex and marriage? Because here’s the thing: Unless we understand the why, then even if we leave those toxic teachings behind, it’s very likely that we’ll get sucked into other forms of toxic...
PODCAST: A Peer Reviewed Celebration (And a Plea to Take Science Seriously)

PODCAST: A Peer Reviewed Celebration (And a Plea to Take Science Seriously)

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 19, 2024 | Podcasts

The Great Sex Rescue is officially peer reviewed! We used a subset of our dataset for a paper that was just published in the journal Sociology of Religion.  So we have done it! We have raised the bar on what counts as research in evangelical marriage and sex advice....
Giving Tuesday: Help Us Reach Those Still in Toxicity

Giving Tuesday: Help Us Reach Those Still in Toxicity

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 3, 2024 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

We’ve figured out our biggest problem. Recently I was talking with a young couple who got married after having done everything “right.” They thought marriage would be easy; instead, sex was the hardest part of their lives. She felt objectified; he...
Sexual Boundaries in Marriage Don’t Mean You’re Anti-Sex

Sexual Boundaries in Marriage Don’t Mean You’re Anti-Sex

by Rebecca Lindenbach | Nov 25, 2024 | Sexual Intimacy

Why are so many evangelical authors trying to convince married women not to have sexual boundaries? In episode 260 of the Bare Marriage podcast, that dropped last week, Rebecca and I had one of my favourite convos so far, when we looked at how too many evangelical...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!