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Next Steps after Reading The Great Sex Rescue

Next Steps after Reading The Great Sex Rescue

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 9, 2021 | Bare Marriage, Sex

If you’ve read The Great Sex Rescue, it may have opened your eyes to so much that’s holding you back. But where do you go from here? Sheila here! Today Dr. Camden Morgante, a clinical psychologist and good friend, is joining us to suggest next steps after...
Let’s See the Pornographic Style of Relating in Action

Let’s See the Pornographic Style of Relating in Action

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 22, 2021 | Pornography

What do you do when you’re told that it’s your Christian duty to act like porn for your husband? Many of you have really enjoyed hearing Andrew Bauman on the Bare Marriage podcast. He’s the co-founder and co-director of the Christian Counseling...
Yes, You Can Write a Sex Book That Can Help (Almost) Everybody

Yes, You Can Write a Sex Book That Can Help (Almost) Everybody

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 19, 2021 | Research

“A book about sex isn’t for everyone. It can’t be — and it shouldn’t be.” That’s how Debra Fileta, a licensed counselor and the co-author of the recent book Married Sex with Gary Thomas, begins a recent article where she defends the book. We’ve...
Take a Tour of Other People’s Podcasts–Where I’ve Been a Guest!

Take a Tour of Other People’s Podcasts–Where I’ve Been a Guest!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 15, 2021 | Bare Marriage

I spend a lot of my days on Zoom on other people’s podcasts. And on other people’s podcasts I often summarize our research for The Great Sex Rescue, and talk about the issues more succinctly than I do on my own podcast, because on my own podcast I can take...
2-Step Plan to Tell if a Book or Teacher is Safe and Healthy

2-Step Plan to Tell if a Book or Teacher is Safe and Healthy

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 22, 2021 | Research

In the evangelical church, too many of our books, resources and pastors spread messages that we now know are harmful–and we don’t have a way to stop it. Last year, we conducted  a survey of 20,000 predominantly Christian women to see if any of the messages...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!