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Reader Question: My Husband Doesn’t Think our Sex Life is Good Enough!

Reader Question: My Husband Doesn’t Think our Sex Life is Good Enough!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 8, 2021 | Resolving Conflict

What do you do when your husband thinks you have a bad sex life? Recently we were talking about 10 marriage and sex red flags–signs that there may be something wrong with your marriage. Here’s a really messy question from a woman whose husband has decided...
10 Tips for Talking with Your Husband About Your Sex Life

10 Tips for Talking with Your Husband About Your Sex Life

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 23, 2021 | intimacy

Talking about sex with your husband can be super awkward. But if you want sex to be good, you’re going to have to figure out how to talk about it! We’re in the last week of our direct communication series on the blog. We’re talked about why direct...
8 Ways to Improve Sex for International Lovemaking Day!

8 Ways to Improve Sex for International Lovemaking Day!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 9, 2021 | Making Sex Feel Good

It’s June 9, which means it’s International Lovemaking Day! (If some of you don’t get that, it’s 6/9. I feel like some 13-year-old boy giggling at a sexual innuendo, but there you go). Dan Purcell, the creator of the Intimately Us app, was a...
The ORGASM Series: 10 Things Husbands Who Are Great Lovers Do

The ORGASM Series: 10 Things Husbands Who Are Great Lovers Do

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 19, 2020 | Sexual Intimacy

What do husbands who care about their wife’s pleasure and their wife’s orgasm actually do? We’re in the middle of our orgasm series, culminating in the release of our Orgasm Course next Monday (Yay!). Katie’s frantically editing the last of the...
Why Are So Many Sex Problems in Marriage So Hard to Solve?

Why Are So Many Sex Problems in Marriage So Hard to Solve?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 20, 2020 | Sex

When people write in with sex problems, one of the hardest things is that the problem is often not just one thing. It would be wonderful if, when people have problems with sex, it were one simple thing, like: “Our relationship is great and everything is...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!