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Many Evangelicals Resemble Generic Fundamentalists More than Jesus Followers

Many Evangelicals Resemble Generic Fundamentalists More than Jesus Followers

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 10, 2025 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Modern evangelicals are often closet fundamentalists. They may wear hip clothing, and they may try to sound “cool”, but they often look far more like fundamentalists than they do like Jesus. This week on the Bare Marriage podcast (dropping tomorrow), Keith...
Why Do Women Often Create the Most Toxic Content?

Why Do Women Often Create the Most Toxic Content?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 3, 2025 | Marriage

Why is it that the worst messages are often shared by women? Why is it that it’s often social media accounts run by women, and books written by women, which are the most adamant about preaching obligation sex, women’s unilateral submission, women having subordinate...
Let’s Talk about the Weight of Being a Woman

Let’s Talk about the Weight of Being a Woman

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 3, 2025 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Thank you to Zondervan and For the Love of Women for sponsoring this post Ever been told, “sexism is a thing of the past?” Or maybe you’ve heard something like this from your brother, your dad, your co-worker, your favourite podcaster—or even your sister: “Sure,...
PODCAST: For the Love of Women feat. Dorothy Greco

PODCAST: For the Love of Women feat. Dorothy Greco

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 30, 2025 | Podcasts, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Thank you to Zondervan and For the Love of Women for sponsoring this podcast! Have you ever heard people say, “sexism is a thing of the past”? Or maybe been in a conversation where someone has said, “sure, women used to be treated badly, but now...
On Doug Wilson, and Why Conservative Women Are Labelled Progressive

On Doug Wilson, and Why Conservative Women Are Labelled Progressive

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 18, 2025 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

They called Doug Wilson fringe until he wasn’t anymore. The first thing I saw this morning when I got on social media was a post by Christy Lynne Wood saying exactly that–they called him fringe until he wasn’t. And it’s true–I called him...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!