• Blog
    • Latest Blog Posts
  • Podcasts
  • Shop
  • Courses and Books
    • The Marriage You Want
    • The Great Sex Rescue
    • She Deserves Better
    • The Orgasm Course
    • Boost Your Libido Course
    • The Whole Story Puberty Course
  • Resources and Other Links
    • Link Tree Free Resources and More
  • Contact Us
  • Latest Blog Posts
  • Latest Podcasts
  • Store
  • Books
    • The Marriage You Want
    • The Great Sex Rescue
      • The Great Sex Rescue Free Book Study
      • Rubric and Scorecard
    • She Deserves Better
    • The Good Girl’s and Good Guy’s Guide to Great Sex
    • Why I Didn’t Rebel
    • Fixed It For You Book
  • Courses
    • The Orgasm Course
      • User Sign-in
    • The Honeymoon Course
      • User sign-in
    • Boost Your Libido
      • User Sign-in
    • The Whole Story: “The Talk” for Parents and Kids
      • User Sign-in
  • Resources
    • The Great Sex Rescue Toolkit
    • One Sheets
    • Subscribe and Get Our Healthy Sex Teachings Rubric!
    • List of Sheila’s Recommended Books–and Blacklists of Books
    • Library of Sheila’s Media Interviews
  • Contact
    • Book an Interview or Event
    • Join the Newsletter
  • Support Us
    • Join our Patreon
    • Donate (Tax Deductible in the US)
The Great Sex Rescue Toolkit to Combat Toxic Evangelical Teachings on Sex

The Great Sex Rescue Toolkit to Combat Toxic Evangelical Teachings on Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 5, 2023 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

What do you actually SAY to people who believe horrible stuff about sex?  Everyday when I start sipping my tea and check my inbox or social media messages, I’m inevitably greeted by a message that goes something like this:  My church is about to start a small...
5 Questions to Ask Before You Talk to a Woman About What She’s Wearing

5 Questions to Ask Before You Talk to a Woman About What She’s Wearing

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 15, 2023 | Life

“How do I talk to a woman about what she’s wearing?” I’ve received a number of social media messages from women lately asking how to approach a woman about her clothing choices. In some cases it’s been a work situation. In others a...
This is How We Change the Church–Because We All Deserve Better

This is How We Change the Church–Because We All Deserve Better

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 18, 2023 | Parenting Teens

Come celebrate with me! Because today She Deserves Better launches! After two very long years, She Deserves Better is here! And it’s selling so well (thank you all so much!), and we’re all so, so excited to see how this will actually change the...
Does Higher Sex Drive Lead to Rape? Pushback as a Learning Tool

Does Higher Sex Drive Lead to Rape? Pushback as a Learning Tool

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 10, 2023 | Parenting Teens

We had an amazing Theology in the Raw podcast with Preston Sprinkle. It dropped on Thursday, but I’d like to tell you about it, because we’ve never had this opportunity before to answer (friendly!) pushback about our views on modesty and consent. We were...
PODCAST: Shame, DARVO, and Spiritual Bypassing feat. Jasmine Holmes

PODCAST: Shame, DARVO, and Spiritual Bypassing feat. Jasmine Holmes

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 6, 2023 | Podcasts

It’s definition day on the podcast, as we talk Shame with Jasmine Holmes! Plus some other fun stuff! I find Jasmine such an engaging person and a really insightful writer, who has done the hard work of wrestling with difficult things.  Her new book Never Cast...
« Older Entries
Next Entries »

Quick Links

Book an event or interview
See all recent posts
  • Follow
  • Follow
  • Follow
  • Follow

Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!