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PODCAST: The Backlash Defending Purity Culture feat. Zachary Wagner

PODCAST: The Backlash Defending Purity Culture feat. Zachary Wagner

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 18, 2024 | Podcasts

How’s purity culture doing one year since She Deserves Better launched? Today we’re celebrating one year since our book She Deserves Better hit the market! Based on our survey of 7000 predominantly evangelical women, looking at how their experiences in...
What if the Church is Grooming Women for Objectification? Introducing Laura Robinson

What if the Church is Grooming Women for Objectification? Introducing Laura Robinson

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 25, 2023 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Does the church prime women to accept objectification? This summer, as I’m taking a month off from blogging, I wanted to take the opportunity to introduce you to some amazing women that I’ve found via Twitter, who have some super insightful things to say. Chief among...
PODCAST: The Brio Magazine Pajama Party!

PODCAST: The Brio Magazine Pajama Party!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 13, 2023 | Parenting Teens, Podcasts

It’s our 200th episode! And we wanted to celebrate by doing something that matters to Rebecca–and to so many of you. We wanted to read some back issues of Brio Magazine, the magazine for preteen and teen girls published by Focus on the Family that...
The Great Sex Rescue Toolkit to Combat Toxic Evangelical Teachings on Sex

The Great Sex Rescue Toolkit to Combat Toxic Evangelical Teachings on Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 5, 2023 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

What do you actually SAY to people who believe horrible stuff about sex?  Everyday when I start sipping my tea and check my inbox or social media messages, I’m inevitably greeted by a message that goes something like this:  My church is about to start a small...
5 Questions to Ask Before You Talk to a Woman About What She’s Wearing

5 Questions to Ask Before You Talk to a Woman About What She’s Wearing

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 15, 2023 | Life

“How do I talk to a woman about what she’s wearing?” I’ve received a number of social media messages from women lately asking how to approach a woman about her clothing choices. In some cases it’s been a work situation. In others a...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!