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How Many Christian Men Are Sexually Safe Husbands?

How Many Christian Men Are Sexually Safe Husbands?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 21, 2022 | Men's Corner, Pornography

How many Christian husbands see sex in a healthy way? We know that sexual sin, and porn use, and objectification of women are rampant. But it’s not everywhere. So how many guys aren’t affected by this? In February and March I’m posting several...
How One Man Explains the Temptation towards Porn–and How to Fight It

How One Man Explains the Temptation towards Porn–and How to Fight It

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 8, 2020 | Pornography

How do men who have recovered from a porn addiction see that porn addiction in retrospect? As I unpack from my vacation, I’m happy to have a post to share with you this week from Hugh Houston, who has written the book Jesus is Better than Porn. I know so many...
How Porn Use Before Marriage Affects Marriage Now

How Porn Use Before Marriage Affects Marriage Now

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 3, 2019 | Pornography

If a guy (or a teenage girl) has grown up using porn, how is that going to affect marriage? I’m going to take a bit of a time-out from Christmas posts today to talk about something that’s come up lately that I think is important. If you’ve been...
Wives: You Are Not to Blame for Your Husband’s Porn Addiction

Wives: You Are Not to Blame for Your Husband’s Porn Addiction

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 9, 2019 | Pornography

Are wives to blame if their husbands use pornography? One of the things we’ve been talking about on the blog lately is that you are not to blame if your spouse has an affair. You may have contributed to serious marriage problems. You may even have been the...
Should You Marry Someone Who Uses Porn?

Should You Marry Someone Who Uses Porn?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 28, 2019 | Marriage, Pornography

What should you do if your fiance watches porn? Quite frankly, Porn destroys marriage. It rewires the brain so that what becomes arousing is an image, rather than a person. And it distorts people’s sexuality, so that we concentrate solely on the physical aspects...

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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!