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Want Women Free of Sexual Shame? Stop Infantilizing Us!

Want Women Free of Sexual Shame? Stop Infantilizing Us!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 26, 2022 | Abuse, Theology of Marriage and Sex

We know that women have a huge problem with sexual shame. Many men do, too, of course! But let’s stick with women for a moment here, because when we were reading best-selling books to see trends of how they taught about sex, we noticed a pattern: Quite often men...
Out of a Bill Gothard Cult, and Finding Jesus: Podcast with Emily Elizabeth Anderson

Out of a Bill Gothard Cult, and Finding Jesus: Podcast with Emily Elizabeth Anderson

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 7, 2022 | Podcasts

Do You Need to Get Angry at What Purity Culture Stole from You?

Do You Need to Get Angry at What Purity Culture Stole from You?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 15, 2021 | Faith

Anger is not always a bad thing–and some of us would benefit from a bit of it! i’m just back from a weekend knitting retreat with my mom. About 60 knitters gathered at an inn close to where I live for some knitting classes and show and tell and just great...
Untangling Faith, Deconstruction, and My Story

Untangling Faith, Deconstruction, and My Story

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 16, 2021 | Faith

Deconstruction, as a term,  has become really complicated to understand. Rebecca and I talked about it in a recent podcast, and it’s one of those terms that is used differently by different people. But it boils down to this: You recognize that some...
Purity Culture, Consent, and More! Some Podcasts to Fill up Your Day

Purity Culture, Consent, and More! Some Podcasts to Fill up Your Day

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 1, 2021 | Bare Marriage

For the last six months, I’ve been recording at least 3 other podcasts a week–besides my own! It’s been super exhausting, but super fun. I did need to pay attention to the exhaustion factor, though, and so Keith and I are camping for two and a half...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!