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Redefining Sex: Seeing Sex as an Expression of your Relationship, Not as an Individual Need

Redefining Sex: Seeing Sex as an Expression of your Relationship, Not as an Individual Need

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 2, 2022 | Sexual Intimacy

If we don’t put sex in its proper place, sex will become a drain on the relationship, rather than something that makes you feel closer. We’re working this month on how to dig out of the pit you’re in with your sex life, because many people have such...
Is “All Men Struggle with Lust” a Primal Fear?

Is “All Men Struggle with Lust” a Primal Fear?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 11, 2022 | Pornography

MARRIAGE MISDIAGNOSIS: Putting Reconciliation Before Rebuilding Trust

MARRIAGE MISDIAGNOSIS: Putting Reconciliation Before Rebuilding Trust

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 16, 2022 | Resolving Conflict

What if too much marriage advice puts the cart before the horse, demanding reconciliation before trust has been rebuilt? We’ve been looking this month at how so often evangelical marriage advice puts the emphasis in the wrong place, and thus misdiagnoses the...
What if You Could Start Your Sex Life From Scratch

What if You Could Start Your Sex Life From Scratch

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 15, 2019 | Sex

Today a reader is asking, “how do you reset your sex life?” What if it’s been really difficult in the past, but now you’ve recovered. Yet the dynamic still hasn’t changed. “I have read The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex and am...

If My Husband Betrays Me, How Can I Trust the Memories?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 2, 2016 | Pornography, Resolving Conflict

[clickToTweet tweet=”‘If your husband’s sin has hijacked your present, don’t let it rob you of your past, too.'” quote=”‘If your husband’s sin has hijacked your present, don’t let it rob you of your past,...

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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!