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Arousal Non-Concordance: You Really Need to Know What it Is

Arousal Non-Concordance: You Really Need to Know What it Is

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 1, 2021 | Libido

I’d like to begin a longer, ongoing conversation today about arousal non-concordance. To begin, a quick story. As a teen I always won the game Balderdash. Remember that game? You get a bizarre weird word, and everyone has to make up a definition for it, and then...
More Fixed It For Yous: Can Christian Resources Please Stop Enabling Abuse and Sexual Coercion?

More Fixed It For Yous: Can Christian Resources Please Stop Enabling Abuse and Sexual Coercion?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 6, 2021 | Abuse

Sometimes the way that Christian resources talk about sexual coercion and abuse makes me want to cry. When writing The Great Sex Rescue, we read the 10 bestselling marriage books (we excluded 3 because they didn’t talk enough about sex) and 6 iconic sex books....
Dissecting a 1970s Sex Manual: How to Get More Out of Sex

Dissecting a 1970s Sex Manual: How to Get More Out of Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 20, 2021 | Sex

We’ve been taking a romp through history looking at views of sex in different periods. We’ve looked at the Roman world; the medieval period; and the Victorian period. Today we’re jumping forward to the 1970s. On the podcast this week we’ll be...
Have We Taught Teen Girls to Ignore Red Flags When Dating?

Have We Taught Teen Girls to Ignore Red Flags When Dating?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 26, 2021 | Parenting Teens

What happens when we tell girls that “boys will want to push your sexual boundaries”? We’re in the middle of our debunking series, where we look at things that are commonly taught in evangelical circles, and encourage the church to get it right!...
Fixed It For You! We Fix a Survey Question So It Doesn’t Enable Date Rape

Fixed It For You! We Fix a Survey Question So It Doesn’t Enable Date Rape

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 25, 2021 | Abuse, Parenting Teens

When research is poorly done, and then that research is used to “prove” something in Christian circles, everything can go awry. Over the next few weeks, we’ll be telling you some of the things we learned in our survey of 20,000 women last year,...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!