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PODCAST: Incels vs. Pastors–“We Respond to Crazy Pastor Clips” Pallooza!

PODCAST: Incels vs. Pastors–“We Respond to Crazy Pastor Clips” Pallooza!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 11, 2025 | Podcasts

Let’s take on some common horrid evangelical talking points! I thought, as we’re getting to the end of the year, that Keith and I could spend a podcast just reacting to some of the common things we hear pastors say from the pulpit, or influencers say...
Why Do Women Often Create the Most Toxic Content?

Why Do Women Often Create the Most Toxic Content?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 3, 2025 | Marriage

Why is it that the worst messages are often shared by women? Why is it that it’s often social media accounts run by women, and books written by women, which are the most adamant about preaching obligation sex, women’s unilateral submission, women having subordinate...
Complementarianism’s “Equal but Different Roles” Hypocrisy

Complementarianism’s “Equal but Different Roles” Hypocrisy

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 24, 2025 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

With thanks to Zondervan and the book For the Love of Women for sponsoring this post! Complementarianism has a big problem. For those of you who don’t know, complementarianism is the belief that God placed men in authority over women, in marriage and the church (some...
Did Women Ruin the Church Too? Dorothy Greco, The New York Times, and Jesus

Did Women Ruin the Church Too? Dorothy Greco, The New York Times, and Jesus

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 10, 2025 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Thank you to Zondervan and For the Love of Women for sponsoring this post! Last week, The New York Times had a ridiculous headline asking if women ruined the workplace. I bet that Dorothy Greco, who wrote the book For the Love of Women that we talked about on a recent...
What Does the Defence of Slavery Have to Do with Complementarianism?

What Does the Defence of Slavery Have to Do with Complementarianism?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 27, 2025 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

with thanks to Zondervan and the book For the Love of Women for sponsoring this post. I remember the first time I heard a fellow Christian defend slavery. I was in my late thirties, and my husband Keith and I had been joking with “John” (who is now a pastor) about...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!