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PODCAST: Does Traditional “Christian” Marriage Lead to More Immaturity? Let’s See the Data!

PODCAST: Does Traditional “Christian” Marriage Lead to More Immaturity? Let’s See the Data!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 6, 2025 | Connecting, Podcasts

What does immaturity have to do with complementarianism? We had a hard time trying to figure out what to call this episode, because we didn’t want to be TOO controversial–but at the same time, the findings were super interesting. When we looked at the data...
Are the WRONG People Getting the RIGHT Marriage Advice?

Are the WRONG People Getting the RIGHT Marriage Advice?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 3, 2025 | Connecting, Theology of Marriage and Sex

I’ve spent years trying to untangle the Christian marriage advice puzzle. When we started researching the best-selling marriage books when we were writing The Great Sex Rescue, we found, to our dismay, that the majority of them ended up giving really bad advice, that...
Why Are Men Scared to Submit? Super Quick Rundown on Ephesians 5

Why Are Men Scared to Submit? Super Quick Rundown on Ephesians 5

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 24, 2025 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Ephesians 5 calls husbands to submit too. But whenever we talk about men submitting, so many men take offense to that! I wrote up this super quick overview of Ephesians 5 on social media last week, and it went so big that I thought I’d post it here, too, so...
Why Complementarianism Is Part of the Bad Outcomes Package for Marriage

Why Complementarianism Is Part of the Bad Outcomes Package for Marriage

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 3, 2025 | Faith, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Does complementarianism lead to good marriage outcomes? I’m going to answer that question in this post, but I want you to keep something in the back of your head as you’re reading this. One of these things is not like the other, one of these things just...
PODCAST: Why Teamwork Works Better Than Hierarchy

PODCAST: Why Teamwork Works Better Than Hierarchy

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 30, 2025 | Podcasts, Theology of Marriage and Sex

When it comes to marriage, teamwork is associated with all the good stuff! Hierarchy, on the other hand, is associated with all the bad stuff. We explain today on the Bare Marriage podcast some of our biggest picture findings in The Marriage You Want, and how we...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!