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It’s Not All Sin: The Problem with Over-Spiritualizing our Problems

It’s Not All Sin: The Problem with Over-Spiritualizing our Problems

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 6, 2023 | Faith

Sin isn’t the cause of all the bad or counterproductive things we do. And blaming it on sin does harm. When you have the wrong diagnosis, you’re going to have the wrong solution. And that can actually compound the problem. One of the issues with...
What My Grandson Taught Me about How God Sees Us

What My Grandson Taught Me about How God Sees Us

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 14, 2022 | Faith, Parenting Young Kids

Every now and then my grandkids give me a picture of God’s love for us. Or rather, their parents do. I don’t share about my grandkids very often, but last week, on a private Instagram page, Rebecca posted a series of pictures of my 3-year-old grandson Alex and his dad...
PODCAST: Do You Know Your Attachment Style? with Krispin Mayfield

PODCAST: Do You Know Your Attachment Style? with Krispin Mayfield

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 28, 2022 | Podcasts

I’m so excited to be switching gears for a month to talk about attachment! I’ve been reading some books in the last year, and thinking and talking to people who are super smart, and I’ve become convinced that many issues in our marriages and...
On Elisabeth Elliot’s Terrible Courtship–and Dating Men “Sold Out for Jesus”

On Elisabeth Elliot’s Terrible Courtship–and Dating Men “Sold Out for Jesus”

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 26, 2021 | Bare Marriage

Elisabeth Elliot’s book Passion and Purity is NOT a love story. These last few weeks I’ve been reading the big books marketed to young women in the evangelical world for research for our mother-daughter book, and one of those was Passion & Purity. I...
10 Ways to Stay Close When You’re in a Period of Waiting

10 Ways to Stay Close When You’re in a Period of Waiting

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 27, 2018 | Faith, Marriage

Waiting is hard. You have no control. There’s nothing you can do to make it better. And in those moments, how do you stay close to your spouse?I invited Joanna, who works for me, to write a post today on how she and Josiah have handled waiting in the last year,...

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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!