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When You Realize Grief Has a Mind of its Own

When You Realize Grief Has a Mind of its Own

I startled awake this morning, mid-dream, at 4 a.m., like I do most August 6ths. Because 29 years ago my water broke at 4 a.m. My son would have turned 29 today. The body remembers.   I never know what I'm going to write about on his birthday. I usually leave it...

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PODCAST: Is Sex a Want or a Need?

PODCAST: Is Sex a Want or a Need?

Is it fair to call sex a need? We're very much against obligation sex here at Bare Marriage--we've done research that has shown that the obligation sex message results in far worse marital and sexual outcomes, and contributes to abuse rates. But at the same time, is...

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What Difference Have We Made This Year?

What Difference Have We Made This Year?

We're hear to change the conversation about sex and marriage in the evangelical church. And in the wider church too! We want to make it something healthy, evidence-based, and biblical (by which we mean Jesus-centered). And sometimes it's good to pause and ask, "are we...

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