What if our underlying understanding of gender roles makes marriage harder than it needs to be? We're talking about doing marriage on hard mode in the month of September--how so often we can make our lives harder, and thus make marriage harder, than it needs to be....

Sometimes, when life gets stressful, we feel like everything is going wrong. Everyone is picking at everyone else. You're late for everything. Your relationship with your mom is messed up. You and your husband never have time alone and your mad at each other...

We often hear that nagging is one of the worst things a woman can do in a marriage. It makes her husband feel infantilized, undermined, talked down to. But what if nagging is not the real issue? What if we're making too big a deal out of nagging, and not enough of a...

How can you tell if your husband has anger management issues, or if he's actually abusive? I'm starting a series on the blog this month on direct communication, and yesterday we looked at what hinders speaking directly. We'll also cover what direct communication looks...