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The Sexual Confidence Series: 3 Markers of a Sexually Confident Woman

The Sexual Confidence Series: 3 Markers of a Sexually Confident Woman

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 11, 2021 | Series

Sexual confidence can sound almost, well, scary, can’t it? Like it’s something we can never really live up to. A sexually confident woman is someone who is totally okay with her body; totally orgasmic; totally cool telling  her husband what she wants in...
Do Christians Still Think Sex is Bad? The Contagion Theory of Sexuality

Do Christians Still Think Sex is Bad? The Contagion Theory of Sexuality

by Keith Gregoire | Apr 19, 2021 | Faith

Sheila here for a moment. The whole time I was writing The Great Sex Rescue, and combing through the materials for terrible quotes, and becoming quite upset about how awful some of them were, Keith took it all in stride. He kept saying, “yes, Sheila, but the...
10 Tips for Teaching Your Kids About Sex

10 Tips for Teaching Your Kids About Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 21, 2019 | Parenting Young Kids

We live in a world with such distorted sexuality that teaching kids about sex in a healthy way becomes challenging. First there’s our culture which tells us that sexiness is all that matters–that sexual experimentation is part of figuring out who you are...
10 Things That Scare Me About the “Purity” Culture

10 Things That Scare Me About the “Purity” Culture

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 19, 2016 | Faith, Sex

Does the purity culture movement do more harm than good? Last week I wrote a three part series on vaginismus, when you experience pain during intercourse. And in that series we ended up discussing the purity culture in modern Christianity, and its potentially harmful...
PODCAST: Incels vs. Pastors–“We Respond to Crazy Pastor Clips” Pallooza!

PODCAST: Incels vs. Pastors–“We Respond to Crazy Pastor Clips” Pallooza!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 11, 2025 | Podcasts

Let’s take on some common horrid evangelical talking points! I thought, as we’re getting to the end of the year, that Keith and I could spend a podcast just reacting to some of the common things we hear pastors say from the pulpit, or influencers say...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!