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10 Tips for Teaching Your Kids About Sex

10 Tips for Teaching Your Kids About Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 21, 2019 | Parenting Young Kids

We live in a world with such distorted sexuality that teaching kids about sex in a healthy way becomes challenging. First there’s our culture which tells us that sexiness is all that matters–that sexual experimentation is part of figuring out who you are...
How Can We Talk about Men’s Sexual Needs in a Healthy Way?

How Can We Talk about Men’s Sexual Needs in a Healthy Way?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 22, 2017 | Libido

What do you do if you’re a husband, and your wife really isn’t interested in sex? How do you get her to understand men’s sexual needs? This has been a really heavy week on the blog. I’ve been attacking the message that we often hear in certain...
10 Things That Scare Me About the “Purity” Culture

10 Things That Scare Me About the “Purity” Culture

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 19, 2016 | Faith, Sex

Does the purity culture movement do more harm than good? Last week I wrote a three part series on vaginismus, when you experience pain during intercourse. And in that series we ended up discussing the purity culture in modern Christianity, and its potentially harmful...
PODCAST: Breaking Free of Christian Patriarchy & Why people deconstruct

PODCAST: Breaking Free of Christian Patriarchy & Why people deconstruct

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 4, 2024 | Podcasts

What’s it like when your family starts out normal, but grows fundamentalist? Today on the podcast we’re interviewing Cait West, the author of just a beautiful memoir, Rift.  She talks about what it’s like to grow up in a Christian patriarchal family,...
PODCAST: Why Evangelical Honeymoons Go So Badly feat. Jay Stringer

PODCAST: Why Evangelical Honeymoons Go So Badly feat. Jay Stringer

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 28, 2024 | Podcasts, Preparing for Marriage

Is the honeymoon all about the guy FINALLY getting sex? Nope. But too often evangelicals talk like this–and it has grave consequences. Licensed counselor Jay Stringer sent me a video a few weeks ago that he was really concerned about. SBC Megachurch pastor Josh...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!