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When Male Hierarchy Teaching Turns Good Men Bad

When Male Hierarchy Teaching Turns Good Men Bad

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 21, 2024 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Not everyone who ends up dominating their wife is actually an abuser at heart.  What they are doing may be abusive; the same dynamics may be at play, and the same harm may be being done. But it doesn’t always come from the same place. Over and over again since we have...
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It’s Not All Sin: The Problem with Over-Spiritualizing our Problems

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 6, 2023 | Faith

Sin isn’t the cause of all the bad or counterproductive things we do. And blaming it on sin does harm. When you have the wrong diagnosis, you’re going to have the wrong solution. And that can actually compound the problem. One of the issues with...
How Bad Christian Marriage Advice Hurt a Good Couple

How Bad Christian Marriage Advice Hurt a Good Couple

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 30, 2022 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

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ATTACHMENT SERIES: How Can You Grow a Healthy Attachment Style?

ATTACHMENT SERIES: How Can You Grow a Healthy Attachment Style?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 31, 2022 | Connecting, Family, Marriage

If you know you have an unhealthy attachment style, how can you grow and change? It’s the last day in May, and so I want to wrap up our posts about attachment styles. I’m so glad so many of you have found this concept helpful; it’s really changed how...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!