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Complementarians Approach the Bible the Same Way Pro-Slavery People Did

Complementarians Approach the Bible the Same Way Pro-Slavery People Did

by Keith Gregoire | Oct 28, 2026 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Defending slavery and defending male only leadership in the church and the home use the same hermeneutic. My husband Keith has been writing a series of the deceptive ways that complementarians approach Scripture, and today is the final post in the series. He’s...
PODCAST: Why Is the Old Testament So Cavalier About the Abuse of Women? feat. Helen Paynter

PODCAST: Why Is the Old Testament So Cavalier About the Abuse of Women? feat. Helen Paynter

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 22, 2026 | Abuse, Podcasts, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Have you ever felt uncomfortable with the treatment of women in the Old Testament? I was recently sent a note from a woman that said this: I’ve been really seriously struggling as I’ve been leaving the evangelical church recently and what has spurred a lot...
Are Evangelical Egalitarians Just “Giving in to Culture” While Complementarians stick to the Bible?

Are Evangelical Egalitarians Just “Giving in to Culture” While Complementarians stick to the Bible?

by Keith Gregoire | Oct 21, 2026 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Do egalitarians just Giving in to Culture? My husband Keith (bless him!) spends an inordinate amount of time on social media arguing with complementarians. And he’s noticed some commonalities in their arguments. So he decided to wite a series on the big problems...
What I’ve Noticed About Scripture in Evangelical vs. Anglican Churches

What I’ve Noticed About Scripture in Evangelical vs. Anglican Churches

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 6, 2026 | Faith

I’ve been thinking about the lectionary this Easter holiday. It’s still a holiday here in Canada, and I’ll be taking most of the day to relax and recuperate from a cold, but I thought I’d write some thoughts I had after all the services at my...
Defeating Complementarianism Is Not Just an Intellectual Exercise

Defeating Complementarianism Is Not Just an Intellectual Exercise

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 11, 2026 | Books, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Preston Sprinkle’s new book comes out in favour of egalitarianism! I’m honestly so relieved. I heard about From Genesis to Junia a few months ago, and assumed the worst. He claimed that he was going to take an unbiased look at the scholarship about...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

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