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Defeating Complementarianism Is Not Just an Intellectual Exercise

Defeating Complementarianism Is Not Just an Intellectual Exercise

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 11, 2026 | Books, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Preston Sprinkle’s new book comes out in favour of egalitarianism! I’m honestly so relieved. I heard about From Genesis to Junia a few months ago, and assumed the worst. He claimed that he was going to take an unbiased look at the scholarship about...
The Misleading TActics used to Keep Women Down in Evangelicalism

The Misleading TActics used to Keep Women Down in Evangelicalism

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 25, 2026 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

So much Christian teaching is dedicated to keeping men in power over women. I don’t think that’s of Christ. I know it bears bad fruit (we’ve measured it!). And I believe that it is pushing women out of the church and making marriages worse. And so...
PODCAST: To Heal Or Harm–Making Sense of the Weaponized Bible Verses

PODCAST: To Heal Or Harm–Making Sense of the Weaponized Bible Verses

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 29, 2026 | Podcasts, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Scripture can be used to abuse people.  But it can also be used to heal! Today Dr. Steven Tracy takes us through some of the most weaponized verses in the Bible against abuse victims, and helps us see clearly how these verses have been misunderstood and misused.  And...
What If “Keeping the Peace” Hurts Long-Term?

What If “Keeping the Peace” Hurts Long-Term?

by Rebecca Lindenbach | Jan 28, 2026 | Faith, Parenting

What if keeping the peace seems safer–but it’s actually riskier long-term? Sheila here! Those of you who read the blog regularly, and who follow me on social media, see a lot of my thoughts. But did you know that Rebecca writes the Friday emails that go...
What Should We Do With Pastors Who Struggle with Sexual Sin?

What Should We Do With Pastors Who Struggle with Sexual Sin?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 19, 2026 | Pornography

We have a crisis in the evangelical church of pastors normalizing sexual sin and the objectification of women. Late last week I started talking about a horrible Facebook live that SBC megachurch pastor Jonathan Pokluda made, where he admitted he wanted to sleep with...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!