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The Warning from South Korean Women to the Conservative Evangelical Church

The Warning from South Korean Women to the Conservative Evangelical Church

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 30, 2023 | Marriage

South Korean women are reacting against sexism. Last week on the podcast, we highlighted how the culture in South Korea has been changing as women are being empowered in larger society. No longer are South Korean women left to rely on marriage and men to ensure they...
Psychology Today Says Women Are Getting Higher Standards–and Men Are Left Lonely

Psychology Today Says Women Are Getting Higher Standards–and Men Are Left Lonely

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 12, 2022 | Preparing for Marriage, Research

What if men are finding it hard to find a mate because women are getting higher standards? That’s the claim in a new article in Psychology Today that’s going crazy on social media right now:  And I checked out the references the post uses, and they appear...
Who is Safer to Date: Christian Men or Secular Men?

Who is Safer to Date: Christian Men or Secular Men?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 22, 2022 | Preparing for Marriage

Do you feel safer in Christian spaces or non-Christian ones? That can be a hard one to answer because there are so many variables, but yesterday I set off a firestorm with my post that only 33.7% of married, evangelical men meet our four criteria for being sexually...
14 Tips for Safe–and Successful–Online Christian Dating!

14 Tips for Safe–and Successful–Online Christian Dating!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 27, 2021 | Faith

So many people on this blog have found love through Christian online dating sites! I’m always amazed when I ask on social media who met their spouses online. Hundreds respond! And ever since I wrote The Great Sex Rescue, and began talking about how much the...
How the “I Kissed Dating Goodbye” Model Left Women So Emotionally Vulnerable

How the “I Kissed Dating Goodbye” Model Left Women So Emotionally Vulnerable

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 27, 2021 | For Women

Just because you’re not going to date doesn’t mean you don’t get your heart broken. My article yesterday on how Elisabeth Elliot’s courtship with Jim sounds quite toxic and unfair to Elisabeth blew up on Facebook and social media. Most were in...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!