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Podcast: It’s Okay to Trust Your Emotions!

Podcast: It’s Okay to Trust Your Emotions!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 12, 2023 | Podcasts

If the heart is wicked and deceitful above all things, then aren’t emotions bad and not to be trusted? So often in evangelical circles we’ve been taught that emotions are bad. It’s logic we’re supposed to follow. It’s fact.  Emotion...
Expectations in Marriage: 4 Things You Should Expect from Your Spouse

Expectations in Marriage: 4 Things You Should Expect from Your Spouse

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 11, 2023 | Connecting

Is it wrong to have expectations in marriage? We’ve been talking about entitlement in marriage, and on Monday I wrote about the difference between feeling entitled and having realistic expectations in marriage. I want to expand on that today. So often...
Redefining Sex: Seeing Sex as an Expression of your Relationship, Not as an Individual Need

Redefining Sex: Seeing Sex as an Expression of your Relationship, Not as an Individual Need

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 2, 2022 | Sexual Intimacy

If we don’t put sex in its proper place, sex will become a drain on the relationship, rather than something that makes you feel closer. We’re working this month on how to dig out of the pit you’re in with your sex life, because many people have such...
MARRIAGE MISDIAGNOSIS: Is Evangelicalism Solving the Wrong Marriage Problem?

MARRIAGE MISDIAGNOSIS: Is Evangelicalism Solving the Wrong Marriage Problem?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 7, 2022 | Resolving Conflict, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Which Comes First: Great Sex or Emotional Connection?

Which Comes First: Great Sex or Emotional Connection?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 31, 2022 | Connecting, Sexual Intimacy

If we want great sex…we may need to look OUTSIDE the bedroom for answers! Here’s a stat that I shared on social media last night about the correlation between arousal and emotional connection: It’s just one stat in a bigger chart in The Great Sex...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!