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Sexual Pleasure: Why Equality of Effort Won’t Get Us There

Sexual Pleasure: Why Equality of Effort Won’t Get Us There

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 10, 2022 | Libido, Making Sex Feel Good

Just a super quick post today on why “equality” sometimes misses the boat when it comes to sexual pleasure. I use Tuesdays either to take a day off from writing the blog, or to share something super quick that’s on my mind and I just want to write it...
Do we Think Jesus Saves Women so Women Can Save Men?

Do we Think Jesus Saves Women so Women Can Save Men?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 27, 2022 | Marriage, Theology of Marriage and Sex

How is it that we defeat sin? According to the Bible, the Holy Spirit transforms us into the likeness of Christ (Romans 8:29) and sanctifies us once we make Jesus Lord of our life. We live by the Spirit (Romans 8) and we aren’t slaves to sin anymore. We take...
PODCAST: Do Christians Have Better Sex Lives? A Response to Josh Howerton

PODCAST: Do Christians Have Better Sex Lives? A Response to Josh Howerton

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 21, 2022 | Podcasts

The Great Sex Rescue got in Mainstream American Christian Media!

The Great Sex Rescue got in Mainstream American Christian Media!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 29, 2022 | Bare Marriage, Books, Sex

Baptist News covered The Great Sex Rescue–and had a great interview with a pastor! One of our frustrations with publicity for The Great Sex Rescue is that mainstream American Christian outlets (magazines, websites, radio shows, etc.) won’t cover it. In...
What’s Next with Our Research on Sex, Marriage, and Gender

What’s Next with Our Research on Sex, Marriage, and Gender

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 23, 2022 | Bare Marriage

Everyday I get more questions about our survey, and about our data, and what we’ll be studying next! I thought I’d try to answer that today in one central place. We’ve done the largest and most comprehensive studies of marriage and sex on evangelical...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!