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Is Kissing Before Marriage a Good Litmus Test?

Is Kissing Before Marriage a Good Litmus Test?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 31, 2023 | Parenting Teens

Are we missing something if we save kissing for marriage?  One of the tenets of purity culture was that all physical contact–even kissing–should be saved for marriage. It wasn’t just that sex is for marriage. It was that kissing was too. Some couples...
The Kissing Conundrum: What if Your Husband Has Terrible Hygiene?

The Kissing Conundrum: What if Your Husband Has Terrible Hygiene?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 6, 2023 | Libido

Stinky and Kissing don’t go together.  A while ago I started a series on kissing, and got sidetracked by some huge news stories in evangelicalism (like the terrible article up at The Gospel Coalition, or Jonathan Pokluda objectifying women in a sermon).  I have...
The Kissing Series: Sometimes Kissing Needs to Just Be Kissing

The Kissing Series: Sometimes Kissing Needs to Just Be Kissing

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 11, 2023 | Libido

The KISSING Series: 7 Reasons Kissing in Marriage Can Stop!

The KISSING Series: 7 Reasons Kissing in Marriage Can Stop!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 6, 2023 | Connecting, Series

Do you remember your pre-teen years when you used to dream of kissing your crush? In those days you likely couldn’t imagine much beyond kissing, but kissing was a BIG DEAL. All the romance movies ended when the couple had their first kiss. The culmination of...
10 Kissing Games to Play with Your Husband

10 Kissing Games to Play with Your Husband

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 12, 2019 | Sexual Intimacy

Kissing in marriage should be fun! But too often kissing stops once we’re married. We see it as foreplay, and many women don’t want to put a downpayment down on something they may not want to buy later, if you know what I mean. And many men don’t see...

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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!