by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 16, 2023 | Making Sex Feel Good
We’ve got some new findings from our survey of 20,000 women! Behind the scenes, for the last year, between running new numbers for blog posts and podcasts, and presenting at conferences, Joanna Sawatsky (my amazing co-author for The Great Sex Rescue and She Deserves...
by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 2, 2022 | Sexual Intimacy
Were you ever told as a teen that if you have sex with someone, you will bond with them? That if you have sex you will feel so bonded that it will be hard to ever bond with anyone else again? And that when we have sex, we release the bonding hormone oxytocin? What...
by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 30, 2022 | Sexual Intimacy
If we want sex to be awesome, then we need to be able to feel like sex is for us too. We need to feel like we matter. Sex is supposed to be mutual, intimate, and pleasurable for both, and mutuality and intimacy means that you are both coming to the bedroom willingly,...
by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 18, 2022 | Abuse
What does it mean to be “unwilling” to have sex? We’re in the middle of a series on the blog about how to dig out of the pit your sex life is in, when one of you, or both of you, keeps digging that pit deeper. One of the big points I was making is...
by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 9, 2022 | Making Sex Feel Good
Sex is supposed to be mutual and pleasurable for both. Your pleasure is supposed to matter. Unfortunately, though, we have a 47 point orgasm gap among evangelicals, meaning that 95% of men report almost always or always reaching orgasm during a sexual encounter,...