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What Church You Go To Affects Orgasm Rates!

What Church You Go To Affects Orgasm Rates!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 16, 2023 | Making Sex Feel Good

We’ve got some new findings from our survey of 20,000 women! Behind the scenes, for the last year, between running new numbers for blog posts and podcasts, and presenting at conferences, Joanna Sawatsky (my amazing co-author for The Great Sex Rescue and She Deserves...
Does Sex Bond You to Your Partner? Not Necessarily!

Does Sex Bond You to Your Partner? Not Necessarily!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 2, 2022 | Sexual Intimacy

Were you ever told as a teen that if you have sex with someone, you will bond with them?  That if you have sex you will feel so bonded that it will be hard to ever bond with anyone else again? And that when we have sex, we release the bonding hormone oxytocin?  What...
How to Reclaim Your Sexual Autonomy in Marriage

How to Reclaim Your Sexual Autonomy in Marriage

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 30, 2022 | Sexual Intimacy

If we want sex to be awesome, then we need to be able to feel like sex is for us too. We need to feel like we matter. Sex is supposed to be mutual, intimate, and pleasurable for both, and mutuality and intimacy means that you are both coming to the bedroom willingly,...
Christians Need a Better Understanding of Consent

Christians Need a Better Understanding of Consent

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 18, 2022 | Abuse

What does it mean to be “unwilling” to have sex? We’re in the middle of a series on the blog about how to dig out of the pit your sex life is in, when one of you, or both of you, keeps digging that pit deeper. One of the big points I was making is...
When He Deliberately Ignores Your Pleasure: What to Do When Sex Has Become One-Sided

When He Deliberately Ignores Your Pleasure: What to Do When Sex Has Become One-Sided

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 9, 2022 | Making Sex Feel Good

Sex is supposed to be mutual and pleasurable for both. Your pleasure is supposed to matter. Unfortunately, though, we have a 47 point orgasm gap among evangelicals, meaning that 95% of men report almost always or always reaching orgasm during a sexual encounter,...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!