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How Eric and Leslie Ludy Equated the Rape of a 12-Year-Old with “Losing Her Virginity”

How Eric and Leslie Ludy Equated the Rape of a 12-Year-Old with “Losing Her Virginity”

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 15, 2026 | Books

Eric and Leslie Ludy completely distort the trauma of sexual assault This husband and wife team (who got together first when he was 21 and she was 16) wrote one of the “Bibles” of purity culture–When God Writes Your Love Story. We talked about it at...
NEW RESEARCH: Modesty Messages Groom Boys to Become Predators

NEW RESEARCH: Modesty Messages Groom Boys to Become Predators

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 30, 2026 | Parenting Teens, Research

Teaching modesty messages makes church more dangerous for teen girls. That’s what our newest paper, out in the Journal for the Scientific Study of Religion, shows.  It’s based on our dataset for our book She Deserves Better, and the lead author on it...
PODCAST: New Research on Modesty Messages, Sexual Harassment in Church, Plus We Answer Your Questions!

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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 26, 2026 | Parenting Teens, Podcasts

We’ve got a new research paper on modesty messaging coming out! We’ve been working behind the scenes on a number of different peer reviewed papers, and we have another one to tell you about today regarding modesty messaging and sexual harassment in church....
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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 16, 2026 | Pornography

PODCAST: Famished–How Purity culture Taught Girls to Shrink with Anna Rollins

PODCAST: Famished–How Purity culture Taught Girls to Shrink with Anna Rollins

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 26, 2026 | Parenting Teens, Podcasts

What if purity culture taught you to shrink? And you did–literally?  I read Anna Rollins’ book Famished lately, and I was so enthralled by her story (and her writing). She was describing what it was like growing up in purity culture, and how all the stress...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!