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PODCAST: What Would Accountability for Purity Culture Authors Look Like?

PODCAST: What Would Accountability for Purity Culture Authors Look Like?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 6, 2026 | Parenting Teens, Podcasts

Will we ever hear an apology from Dannah Gresh and others? We’re wrapping up our 3-episode arc on the Bare Marriage podcast this week, looking at how purity culture authors (and others!) are trying to rewrite history to make it seem as if they didn’t say...
Purity Culture Authors Need to Apologize. Here’s Why They Won’t.

Purity Culture Authors Need to Apologize. Here’s Why They Won’t.

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 27, 2026 | Parenting Teens, Theology of Marriage and Sex

We had four lawsuit threats the week that The Great Sex Rescue was published. Authors were upset that we had quoted their works and showed them in a bad light. Our publisher pretty quickly talked them down (after all, you can’t sue someone for quoting your exact...
Alisa Childers Owes Evangelical Women an Apology for Dismissing Their Pain

Alisa Childers Owes Evangelical Women an Apology for Dismissing Their Pain

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 3, 2026 | intimacy, Research

Alisa Childers recently critiqued The Great Sex Rescue on her podcast. Childers calls herself an apologist. She became well-known in Christian spaces as a member of ZoeGirl, and now hosts a podcast where she critiques anyone who doesn’t endorse conservative...
PODCAST: Why the Billy Graham Rule Hurts Men Too

PODCAST: Why the Billy Graham Rule Hurts Men Too

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 14, 2026 | Podcasts

The Billy Graham Rule sexualizes everyone–and isn’t biblical. There’s nothing in the Bible that says that we can’t have healthy relationships with our brothers and sisters in Christ, and much that says the opposite. But the evangelical church...
How Eric and Leslie Ludy Equated the Rape of a 12-Year-Old with “Losing Her Virginity”

How Eric and Leslie Ludy Equated the Rape of a 12-Year-Old with “Losing Her Virginity”

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 15, 2026 | Books

Eric and Leslie Ludy completely distort the trauma of sexual assault This husband and wife team (who got together first when he was 21 and she was 16) wrote one of the “Bibles” of purity culture–When God Writes Your Love Story. We talked about it at...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!