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What the Hookup Culture and Purity Culture Have in Common

What the Hookup Culture and Purity Culture Have in Common

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 18, 2022 | Sex, Theology of Marriage and Sex

What if both purity culture and the hookup culture are teaching people to treat sex with dissociation and disconnection? Sheila here! Today I’m proud to turn the blog over to Sam Jolman, a licensed counselor in Colorado who is passionate about promoting a...
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Can Sex Feel Great But Leave You Empty?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 18, 2022 | Connecting, Making Sex Feel Good, Sex, Sexual Intimacy, Spiritual Intimacy

What if sex physically works well–but afterwards you just feel distant from one another? This month on the blog I’m going a “number of the day” series, and I meant to put this post up on Wednesday but the blog was all glitchy that day when we...
Does a “Christian” Marriage Need to Suffer to Grow?

Does a “Christian” Marriage Need to Suffer to Grow?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 18, 2022 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Have you ever thought about how much Jesus must have laughed? And should that make a difference for how we see marriage? On Tuesdays I like to post something super quick rather than write a long post, and I’ve been listening through older episodes of the podcast...
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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 9, 2021 | Making Sex Feel Good

It’s June 9, which means it’s International Lovemaking Day! (If some of you don’t get that, it’s 6/9. I feel like some 13-year-old boy giggling at a sexual innuendo, but there you go). Dan Purcell, the creator of the Intimately Us app, was a...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!