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RESEARCH DEEP DIVE: Bring Back Vanilla Sex!

RESEARCH DEEP DIVE: Bring Back Vanilla Sex!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 28, 2022 | Sexual Intimacy

Are we making sex more difficult than it needs to be? This is the last post in our research deep dive series that we’ve been doing this month, as we’ve looked at what some new peer reviewed studies say about libido, how we see lust, and more. I want to end...
RESEARCH DEEP DIVE: How does a couple’s FIRST TIME affect her LIBIDO?

RESEARCH DEEP DIVE: How does a couple’s FIRST TIME affect her LIBIDO?

by Rebecca Lindenbach | Oct 5, 2022 | Libido, Making Sex Feel Good

What if women don’t naturally want sex less than men do?  Rebecca here again on the blog with another study for you! Researchers from the University of Toronto have come out with really interesting research about what impacts women’s enjoyment of sex.  Note from...
You Don’t Have to Say Yes to Selfish Sex

You Don’t Have to Say Yes to Selfish Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 25, 2022 | Making Sex Feel Good, Sexual Intimacy

When your Husband is a Selfish Lover: 3 Ways to Talk to Him About It

When your Husband is a Selfish Lover: 3 Ways to Talk to Him About It

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 23, 2020 | Resolving Conflict

What if your husband isn’t interested in doing the work to get you to orgasm? What if he’s a selfish lover? We’re in the middle of the our orgasm month, looking at how to help women reach orgasm, all culminating in the launch of The Orgasm Course on Monday (you can...
Are We Caring for Our Marriage or Just Craving the Benefits?

Are We Caring for Our Marriage or Just Craving the Benefits?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 23, 2020 | Marriage

Entitlement can kill a marriage. We’ve been looking at libido differences in the month of September, and if I had to sum up what I’m trying to say, it would just be: “Be a decent person and care for your spouse.” I encouraged low libido spouses...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!