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How Eric and Leslie Ludy Equated the Rape of a 12-Year-Old with “Losing Her Virginity”

How Eric and Leslie Ludy Equated the Rape of a 12-Year-Old with “Losing Her Virginity”

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 15, 2026 | Books

Eric and Leslie Ludy completely distort the trauma of sexual assault This husband and wife team (who got together first when he was 21 and she was 16) wrote one of the “Bibles” of purity culture–When God Writes Your Love Story. We talked about it at...
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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 2, 2026 | Podcasts

Every Man’s Battle Prioritizes Predators over Victims It’s horrifying–and you won’t understand how bad it is until you see it with your own eyes. We’re doing something different for the podcast this week–out of necessity!...
PODCAST: New Research on Modesty Messages, Sexual Harassment in Church, Plus We Answer Your Questions!

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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 26, 2026 | Parenting Teens, Podcasts

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Let’s Dissect the Roots of the Duggars’ Pedophilia

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 23, 2026 | Abuse

Another Duggar son has been charged with sexually abusing a child. This time it’s Joseph Duggar, the seventh born and third son. (I wrote this piece before news broke that his wife Kendra has also been charged with 4 counts of false imprisonment, among other things....
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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 17, 2025 | Abuse, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Thank you to Zondervan and the book For the Love of Women for sponsoring this post God isn’t glorified when women stay in marriages where they’re abused Too many women have sat across from church leaders, bruised and broken, only to be told they must “bear their...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!