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Why Do Women Often Create the Most Toxic Content?

Why Do Women Often Create the Most Toxic Content?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 3, 2025 | Marriage

Why is it that the worst messages are often shared by women? Why is it that it’s often social media accounts run by women, and books written by women, which are the most adamant about preaching obligation sex, women’s unilateral submission, women having subordinate...
How Birthday Party Lady Is Showing the World Boundaries in Marriage

How Birthday Party Lady Is Showing the World Boundaries in Marriage

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 8, 2025 | Resolving Conflict

Don’t let people use your house for a birthday party without telling your spouse. That’s a pretty good rule for life! And right now, over on Threads, thousands upon thousands of people worldwide have been invested in Birthday Party Lady’s story of...
On Doug Wilson, and Why Conservative Women Are Labelled Progressive

On Doug Wilson, and Why Conservative Women Are Labelled Progressive

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 18, 2025 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

They called Doug Wilson fringe until he wasn’t anymore. The first thing I saw this morning when I got on social media was a post by Christy Lynne Wood saying exactly that–they called him fringe until he wasn’t. And it’s true–I called him...
PODCAST: Professor Neil Shows Us How to Reach Young Men Steeped in Misogyny

PODCAST: Professor Neil Shows Us How to Reach Young Men Steeped in Misogyny

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 14, 2025 | Men's Corner, Podcasts

I love Professor Neil’s videos. Professor Neil is a professor of English literature at Cambrian College in Sudbury, Ontario, but he’s best known for his TikTok and Instagram channels where he “stitches” videos from people who have said horriby...
4 Things the “Spanking Our Daughter Is Hilarious” Controversy Tells Us about Evangelical Influencer Advice Culture

4 Things the “Spanking Our Daughter Is Hilarious” Controversy Tells Us about Evangelical Influencer Advice Culture

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 4, 2025 | Parenting Young Kids, Research

Evangelical influencer culture appears to be very pro-spanking I want to share a story today that I think has deep implications for our work here at Bare Marriage. Earlier in July, Madison Prewett and her husband Grant Troutt shared on their podcast about their plans...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!