• Blog
  • Podcasts
    • Starter Podcast Playlists
  • Shop
  • Courses and Books
    • The Marriage You Want
    • The Great Sex Rescue
    • She Deserves Better
    • The Orgasm Course
    • Boost Your Libido Course
    • The Whole Story Puberty Course
  • Resources and Other Links
    • Link Tree Free Resources and More
    • Contact Us
  • Latest Blog Posts
  • Latest Podcasts
  • Store
  • Books
    • The Marriage You Want
    • The Great Sex Rescue
      • The Great Sex Rescue Free Book Study
      • Rubric and Scorecard
    • She Deserves Better
    • The Good Girl’s and Good Guy’s Guide to Great Sex
    • Why I Didn’t Rebel
    • Fixed It For You Book
  • Courses
    • The Orgasm Course
      • User Sign-in
    • The Honeymoon Course
      • User sign-in
    • Boost Your Libido
      • User Sign-in
    • The Whole Story: “The Talk” for Parents and Kids
      • User Sign-in
  • Resources
    • The Great Sex Rescue Toolkit
    • One Sheets
    • Subscribe and Get Our Healthy Sex Teachings Rubric!
    • Starter Playlists for Bare Marriage
    • List of Sheila’s Recommended Books–and Blacklists of Books
    • Library of Sheila’s Media Interviews
  • Contact
    • Book an Interview or Event
    • Join the Newsletter
  • Support Us
    • Join our Patreon
    • Donate (Tax Deductible in the US)
To Be Known and To Know: The Grace of Partnership in Marriage

To Be Known and To Know: The Grace of Partnership in Marriage

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 7, 2025 | Connecting, Marriage

I’ve been doing podcast interviews about our new book The Marriage You Want all over the place! And one that I landed last week was the Shifting Culture podcast.  Its host, Joshua Johnson, wrote an article on his substack about my interview on his podcast, and I...
Is It Complimentarianism or Complementarianism? Why the Spelling MIstake is Apt!

Is It Complimentarianism or Complementarianism? Why the Spelling MIstake is Apt!

by Keith Gregoire | Mar 26, 2025 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Keith’s joining me on the blog today with some thoughts about complementarianism–and the fact that the spelling mistake people often make is quite apt. I always appreciate when he shares his thoughts, and his posts always are among my most read for the...
Becoming a Pastor’s Wife: How Women’s Voices have Been Silenced in the Church

Becoming a Pastor’s Wife: How Women’s Voices have Been Silenced in the Church

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 24, 2025 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

(Thank you, Brazos Press, for sponsoring this post! Our sponsors make what we do possible, and we are so excited to be able to endorse and promote this book.)  Beth Allison Barr knows what it is to be pigeonholed because she’s a woman. To be told that even though she...
PODCAST: Becoming the Pastor’s Wife feat Beth Allison Barr

PODCAST: Becoming the Pastor’s Wife feat Beth Allison Barr

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 20, 2025 | Podcasts, Theology of Marriage and Sex

What if marriage has become the main path to ministry for women? Or really, the main option for women? (Thank you, Brazos Press, for sponsoring this episode of the Bare Marriage podcast! Our sponsors make what we do possible, and we are so excited to be able to...
PODCAST: Does Traditional “Christian” Marriage Lead to More Immaturity? Let’s See the Data!

PODCAST: Does Traditional “Christian” Marriage Lead to More Immaturity? Let’s See the Data!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 6, 2025 | Connecting, Podcasts

What does immaturity have to do with complementarianism? We had a hard time trying to figure out what to call this episode, because we didn’t want to be TOO controversial–but at the same time, the findings were super interesting. When we looked at the data...
« Older Entries
Next Entries »

Quick Links

Book an event or interview
See all recent posts
  • Follow
  • Follow
  • Follow
  • Follow

Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!