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10 Christmas Traditions When You Don’t Have Kids

Christmas is coming! And back before my blog became more about evidence-based advice for sex and marriage, I gave a lot of general marriage advice and ideas. Around Christmas, I had some posts and ideas I really liked. And so I thought I'd run some of those again as...

Where Can I Find a Good Counselor if the Church is Toxic?

Recently, I received a question from a reader about how to find a good counselor“I really need help knowing how to find the right kind of counselor. We have one but he is caught up in the traditional Christian stuff about men's problems being lost etc.  I'm also...

A “Hygge” Marriage: What the Danes Can Teach Us about Happiness in Marriage

The Danes can teach us a lot about how to be happy in marriage! I am back from three weeks offline (which was amazing, and which I desperately needed), and during that time my mother and my husband and I took a cruise of Northern Europe, spending time in Denmark and...

What is the Window of Tolerance? And What Does It Mean about Sex?

 The window of tolerance concept helps highlight emotional health.  On a recent podcast episode, I was honoured to have licensed counsellor, Jay Stringer, on as a guest.  One of the things he talked about was that evangelical views on gender roles and marriage are...
What Makes a Good Marriage?

What Makes a Good Marriage?

What do we mean by “a good marriage”?  When we say, “I want a good marriage”, what, exactly, are we talking about? A marriage that lasts 50 years? A marriage that doesn’t divorce? A marriage that produces great kids? A marriage that follows God’s “created order” of a...

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