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PODCAST: Bring Back Vanilla Sex

PODCAST: Bring Back Vanilla Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 26, 2023 | Podcasts, Sexual Intimacy

What’s Wrong with Vanilla Sex? Valentine’s Day is coming up just around the corner, and that means that we’re going to start to see lots and lots of articles about how to have hot sex.  They will be on magazines. They will be in Christian media. How...
Is Holding Men to a High Standard “Man-Bashing”?

Is Holding Men to a High Standard “Man-Bashing”?

by Keith Gregoire | Jan 25, 2023 | Men's Corner

You Deserve a Grown-Up Spouse: Let’s Talk Weaponized Incompetence

You Deserve a Grown-Up Spouse: Let’s Talk Weaponized Incompetence

by Rebecca Lindenbach | Jan 23, 2023 | Marriage, Resolving Conflict

How Emerson Eggerichs Misuses Scripture in Love & Respect

How Emerson Eggerichs Misuses Scripture in Love & Respect

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 20, 2023 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Emerson Eggerichs does not handle Scripture appropriately in Love & Respect.  So many people defend the book Love & Respect, saying that it is biblical and rooted in Scripture. And, indeed, Emerson Eggerichs has 230 Scripture references in his book. This does...
PODCAST: How Emerson Eggerichs MIsuses Scripture, feat. Nijay Gupta

PODCAST: How Emerson Eggerichs MIsuses Scripture, feat. Nijay Gupta

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 19, 2023 | Podcasts, Theology of Marriage and Sex

It is not just that the book Love & Respect contains toxic teachings. It is also that the book doesn’t handle the Bible properly, twisting passages, prooftexting, and at times even deleting whole words and phrases so the verses appear to suit his thesis. ...
A Summary of the Issues with Love & Respect by Emerson Eggerichs (with Download)

A Summary of the Issues with Love & Respect by Emerson Eggerichs (with Download)

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 18, 2023 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

The Double Standards of Sexual Expectations in Marriage

The Double Standards of Sexual Expectations in Marriage

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 16, 2023 | Sexual Intimacy

We need to deal with our double standards of sexual expectations in marriage. This month we’re looking at entitlement in marriage, and how the entitlement mentality can kill a marriage. One of the things we were talking about last week was that reasonable...
It’s Not Idolatry to Expect Connection with Your Spouse

It’s Not Idolatry to Expect Connection with Your Spouse

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 13, 2023 | Connecting

When we marry, it’s because we want to be with someone for the rest of our lives. We enjoy being with them. We love them. We want that relationship. And God said that was a good thing! “It is not good for man to be alone.” This month on the blog...
Podcast: It’s Okay to Trust Your Emotions!

Podcast: It’s Okay to Trust Your Emotions!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 12, 2023 | Podcasts

If the heart is wicked and deceitful above all things, then aren’t emotions bad and not to be trusted? So often in evangelical circles we’ve been taught that emotions are bad. It’s logic we’re supposed to follow. It’s fact.  Emotion...
Expectations in Marriage: 4 Things You Should Expect from Your Spouse

Expectations in Marriage: 4 Things You Should Expect from Your Spouse

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 11, 2023 | Connecting

Is it wrong to have expectations in marriage? We’ve been talking about entitlement in marriage, and on Monday I wrote about the difference between feeling entitled and having realistic expectations in marriage. I want to expand on that today. So often...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!