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PODCAST: How We Love–Attachment Styles and Marriage with the Yerkovichs!

PODCAST: How We Love–Attachment Styles and Marriage with the Yerkovichs!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 19, 2022 | Podcasts

How do our attachment styles–or love styles–affect our marriage? This month on the blog we’re talking all about attachment styles. So often we think that our marriage problems are about communication, or habits, or normal conflicts. But what if...
The 5 Love Styles and the Attachment Styles Dance

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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 11, 2022 | Connecting, Preparing for Marriage, Research, Spiritual Intimacy

Our attachment style that we learn in childhood affects our “love styles” as adults.  I’m a big fan of the book How We Love by Milan and Kay Yerkovich. It’s one of the few Christian marriage books that I can recommend wholeheartedly.  How We...
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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 9, 2022 | Parenting Teens, Parenting Young Kids, Research

When my daughter Rebecca was 19 months old, her baby brother died. He was only a month old. We learned when I was about 5 months pregnant about his heart condition, and that things would be very touch and go. We spent the last four months of the pregnancy petrified of...
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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 4, 2022 | Series

This month we’re going to talk about attachment styles and why they matter! Attachment styles are the way that we relate to other people, and they’re based on what we learned when relating to our earliest caregivers.  The field really took off in the 1950s...
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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 3, 2022 | Faith, Parenting Teens, Parenting Young Kids

Christian parenting advice seems to really like discipline and obedience. Rebecca here on the blog today. As I was researching other parenting books and various Christian parenting blogs as I wrote my book, Why I Didn’t Rebel, this focus on repentance and...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!