What We Don’t Know about the Clitoris (And Other Parts of Women’s Sexuality)

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 22, 2021 | For Women

Did you know that it’s only recently that medical textbooks have started getting the clitoris right? For years, the clitoris was shown as smaller than it actually is, and often the nerves and rooots were omitted.  The penis, on the other hand, tended to be shown...

Are You Feeling too Schlubby to Want to Have Sex?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 29, 2021 | Libido

The way we feel about our bodies can cause our libido to crater. And when you feel schlubby (I love that word!), it’s hard to want to get it on. I get the best stuff sent to me from readers, and last week a reader passed along an article from the Wall Street...

Do You Put Your Wife’s Needs First? Plus 2 Extra Ways to Boost Her Self-Image! Comments of the Week

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 21, 2020 | Marriage

I am personally very glad this week is over! I’ve (Rebecca) been looking over the blog since Sheila (my mom) has been on her vacation (they are having a lovely time, by the way!). And although I get to work from home and my job is really not that hard since mom...

How to Reconnect with Your Body if You’re an Abuse Survivor (or Trauma Survivor)

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 4, 2019 | Abuse

When you’re abused, a common defense mechanism is dissociation–when you mentally “flee” your body and try to be anywhere but here. That helps you live through trauma. But it also creates a whole heap of problems down the road when you’re...

Choosing Panties for Your Body Type–that Make You Feel Sexy and Comfortable

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 14, 2019 | Sex

What kind of underwear should you wear? And can choosing the right kind for you body type help you feel sexy? I’m on a mission this month to help us all reclaim our lingerie drawers and choose items that help us feel sexy! Every Wednesday in the month of August...