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8 Reasons to Go To Bed Before You’re Tired

8 Reasons to Go To Bed Before You’re Tired

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 17, 2022 | Connecting, Libido, Life

What if there’s something super simple you could do that could improve your mood and your marriage? I talked on Monday about rhythms in our lives–how to honor our bodies’ rhythms, with the need for work and rest; for feasting and fasting. And I...
Can We Honor Our Bodies’ Rhythms? And Why that May Mean Saying No to Sex Sometimes

Can We Honor Our Bodies’ Rhythms? And Why that May Mean Saying No to Sex Sometimes

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 15, 2022 | Libido, Sexual Intimacy

God created life with natural rhythms. But I feel like much of the effort of modern life is to obliterate those rhythms. Two things got me thinking about this lately, and I’d like to tell you about them and then explore this further. Exhibit A: I had COVID....
The Emotional Labor and Mental Load Podcast!

The Emotional Labor and Mental Load Podcast!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 4, 2020 | Podcasts

Emotional labor and mental load take their toll on a marriage–because they often exhaust the wife. So many women experience this, and yet we don’t really have a name for it. We know something is wrong, we feel guilty because we dream of getting away for...

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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!