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Spanking Fixed It For You: It’s Okay to Change Your Mind about Spanking

Spanking Fixed It For You: It’s Okay to Change Your Mind about Spanking

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 20, 2022 | Parenting Young Kids

I never spanked my kids. Well, there’s a funny story about Katie, but I’ll leave that for another time.  What I did do, though, was write a column in my weekly paper about twenty years ago bemoaning the fact that the Children’s Aid Society was taking...
More Fixed It For Yous: Can Christian Resources Please Stop Enabling Abuse and Sexual Coercion?

More Fixed It For Yous: Can Christian Resources Please Stop Enabling Abuse and Sexual Coercion?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 6, 2021 | Abuse

Sometimes the way that Christian resources talk about sexual coercion and abuse makes me want to cry. When writing The Great Sex Rescue, we read the 10 bestselling marriage books (we excluded 3 because they didn’t talk enough about sex) and 6 iconic sex books....
You’ve Got to See These “Fixed it for Yous”!

You’ve Got to See These “Fixed it for Yous”!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 7, 2021 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

I was blown away by your messages of encouragement yesterday, here and on Facebook. Thank you so much! I got up this morning with something I wanted to write that I’ve been thinking about, but you all told me to rest, so I think I’ll leave it and write...
Fixed It For You! Have You Seen These?

Fixed It For You! Have You Seen These?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 3, 2021 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

I’ve been fixing terrible quotations from some Christian marriage & sex books! If you follow me on Instagram or Facebook, you’ve likely seen these. And I sent them out to my email subscribers last Friday, too! But if you just read the blog, you may...
Fixed It For You! We Fix a Survey Question So It Doesn’t Enable Date Rape

Fixed It For You! We Fix a Survey Question So It Doesn’t Enable Date Rape

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 25, 2021 | Abuse, Parenting Teens

When research is poorly done, and then that research is used to “prove” something in Christian circles, everything can go awry. Over the next few weeks, we’ll be telling you some of the things we learned in our survey of 20,000 women last year,...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!