You’ve Got to See These “Fixed it for Yous”!

by | Jul 7, 2021 | Uncategorized | 7 comments

The Great Sex Rescue Fixes Quotes
Merchandise is Here!

I was blown away by your messages of encouragement yesterday, here and on Facebook.

Thank you so much!

I got up this morning with something I wanted to write that I’ve been thinking about, but you all told me to rest, so I think I’ll leave it and write about it when I’m home!

Instead today I thought I’d share some of my more popular Instagram posts–my “Fixed it For Yous.” These are all quotes that we looked at in The Great Sex Rescue (I have a whole spreadsheet of problematic quotes from best-sellers), and I just fix them!

The next two go together–they’re a “set”.

And then I post some quotes from our book, too, to counteract the negativity!

Great Sex Rescue Quote Intimacy

I have a lot of fun with these. And, full disclosure, the idea for “Fixed it for You” was Rebecca’s. Most of the good ideas are hers!

Anyway, make sure you’re following me on Instagram to see more!

And, again, thank  you for all your encouragement yesterday. It meant so much. 

The Great Sex Rescue

Changing the conversation about sex & marriage in the evangelical church.

What if you’re NOT the problem with your sex life?

What if the things that you’ve been taught have messed things up–and what if there’s a way to escape these messages?

Welcome to the Great Sex Rescue.

Sheila Wray Gregoire

Sheila Wray Gregoire

Founder of To Love, Honor and Vacuum

Sheila is determined to help Christians find biblical, healthy, evidence-based help for their marriages. And in doing so, she's turning the evangelical world on its head, challenging many of the toxic teachings, especially in her newest book The Great Sex Rescue. She’s an award-winning author of 8 books and a sought-after speaker. With her humorous, no-nonsense approach, Sheila works with her husband Keith and daughter Rebecca to create podcasts and courses to help couples find true intimacy. Plus she knits. All the time. ENTJ, straight 8

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Sheila Wray Gregoire

Author at Bare Marriage

Sheila is determined to help Christians find biblical, healthy, evidence-based help for their marriages. And in doing so, she's turning the evangelical world on its head, challenging many of the toxic teachings, especially in her newest book The Great Sex Rescue. She’s an award-winning author of 8 books and a sought-after speaker. With her humorous, no-nonsense approach, Sheila works with her husband Keith and daughter Rebecca to create podcasts and courses to help couples find true intimacy. Plus she knits. All the time. ENTJ, straight 8

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7 Comments

  1. Nathan

    I’ve got one.

    A little while back, a poster remarked about how at a church group she went to, the women would have a competition to see who was the most submissive to their husbands. Instead, it would be better for them to celebrate how equal they are in the marriage.

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  2. Nick

    I always hold the door open for a lady and I have never once thought it was to get a certain glance as she goes by after me. If she’s beautiful, I’ll notice anyway, but it doesn’t mean objectifying her.

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    • Sheila Wray Gregoire

      I know! That’s just what decent people do. The way that they reduce it to something crass is so gross.

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    • Anon

      Yes, that one made me so sad. I wonder how many decent guys, who have always held doors open out of genuine politeness, felt awkward and embarrassed to do so after reading that, because they’re worrying that this is how women will view their attempts to be polite!

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  3. Charlene

    Thank you, Sheila, for doing what God has called you to do with your time and energy. I am sooo very grateful that God is doing a healing work through you. You are doing the good works He has prepared for you to do. I pray that you do not pay attention to discouraging, disparaging remarks from those that oppose the work you do and that you remember that this work you do if for the Lord!
    I am so glad you’ve gotten encouragement from many others and I just wanted to add to it. I don’t post comments very often, but I often read your posts and buy your books.
    You have made a big difference in my marraige and my whole life and I thank you profusely!

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    • Sheila Wray Gregoire

      Wow, that’s really bad, isn’t it? I’d point that author to my month long series on emotional labor and mental load, and I’d sit that couple down and tell him that he needs to take on some of the mental load of the household.

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