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PODCAST: Let’s Revisit the Logical Inconsistencies of Unconditional Respect

PODCAST: Let’s Revisit the Logical Inconsistencies of Unconditional Respect

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 7, 2022 | Abuse, Marriage, Podcasts, Resolving Conflict

Unconditional respect isn’t a thing. And yet we’re often told that men need unconditional respect, just like women need unconditional love. It’s summertime, so I’m taking a month off of recording new podcasts, and instead I’m going to...
The Math of Love and Respect

The Math of Love and Respect

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 5, 2022 | Bare Marriage, Connecting, Research

Has anyone noticed that the math in Love & Respect for how many people the book applies to doesn’t add up? Joanna and her family are on their way down from the Arctic today to stay at my house for a week. They’re moving to Edmonton (it’s funny to...
The Podcast With the Woman Who Was Crying in the Shower Before Sex

The Podcast With the Woman Who Was Crying in the Shower Before Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 3, 2022 | Podcasts

Two weeks ago on the podcast we told you about a women who wrote in to Emerson Eggerichs of Love & Respect, saying she was crying in the shower before sex. She said that if she didn’t have sex with her husband, he would treat her very badly. His response?...
The Podcast Where Emerson Eggerichs Ignores Marital Rape

The Podcast Where Emerson Eggerichs Ignores Marital Rape

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 20, 2022 | Podcasts

I’m all fired up about the fact that people still consider Emerson Eggerichs an authority on marriage and sex. As most of you know, every year in this week in January we revisit the problems with the book Love & Respect, in the hopes that more and more...
Why Does Emerson Eggerichs Consider a Woman Crying in the Shower Before Sex “A Goldmine”?

Why Does Emerson Eggerichs Consider a Woman Crying in the Shower Before Sex “A Goldmine”?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 19, 2022 | Abuse

It’s Time to Revisit Love & Respect! It’s three years ago this week that we launched our first series looking at the problems with the book Love & Respect. Since then we’ve received over 1000 stories of how that book made people’s...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!