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Do Conservative Evangelicals Have Better Sex and Less Abuse? Our Response to Josh Howerton

Do Conservative Evangelicals Have Better Sex and Less Abuse? Our Response to Josh Howerton

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 7, 2022 | Abuse, Making Sex Feel Good, Research, Theology of Marriage and Sex

I’ve got an awesome example of how stats can be misused today! And why it’s important when we hear someone who isn’t trained in statistics using studies to “prove” their point, when the point sounds like a stretch, to actually check their...
PODCAST: Is Sex a “Yes Space” for Men? And What Does that Do to Women’s Libido?

PODCAST: Is Sex a “Yes Space” for Men? And What Does that Do to Women’s Libido?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 2, 2022 | Podcasts

Have we made sex–and marriage–into a “Yes Space” for men? And if so, how does this affect libido? It’s been a while since Rebecca and I recorded a podcast where we just talked about what we wanted to talk about, rather than having...
Sexual Pleasure: Why Equality of Effort Won’t Get Us There

Sexual Pleasure: Why Equality of Effort Won’t Get Us There

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 10, 2022 | Libido, Making Sex Feel Good

Just a super quick post today on why “equality” sometimes misses the boat when it comes to sexual pleasure. I use Tuesdays either to take a day off from writing the blog, or to share something super quick that’s on my mind and I just want to write it...
The “Let’s Go to Dinner” Saga–and Why Women May Not Want Sex

The “Let’s Go to Dinner” Saga–and Why Women May Not Want Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 14, 2022 | Libido

Why We Have to Stop Ignoring the Orgasm Gap by Saying Frequency is all that Matters

Why We Have to Stop Ignoring the Orgasm Gap by Saying Frequency is all that Matters

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 11, 2022 | Making Sex Feel Good

Once again, Focus on the Family is promoting an article that places the blame on you if your spouse cheats. They’re advertising an older article on their Facebook page right now where it encourages you to look for “vulnerabilities” in your marriage...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!