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PODCAST: New Research Blows Away the Evangelical Idea about Lust

PODCAST: New Research Blows Away the Evangelical Idea about Lust

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 17, 2022 | Libido, Podcasts, Pornography

Is lust really every man’s battle? And how do we handle different libidos? It’s launch week for The Good Guy’s Guide to Great Sex and The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex, and I wanted to save some of our most important findings from our...
Let’s See the Pornographic Style of Relating in Action

Let’s See the Pornographic Style of Relating in Action

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 22, 2021 | Pornography

What do you do when you’re told that it’s your Christian duty to act like porn for your husband? Many of you have really enjoyed hearing Andrew Bauman on the Bare Marriage podcast. He’s the co-founder and co-director of the Christian Counseling...
Top 10 Marriage and Sex Red Flags You Must Never Ignore

Top 10 Marriage and Sex Red Flags You Must Never Ignore

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 28, 2021 | Marriage

Marriage red flags–all of us have marriage issues, but how do you know if an issue crosses the line into dangerously weird territory? I receive many emails from women in crisis, and since we’re talking about doing marriage on hard mode all month, I thought...
Don’t Tell Women to Have Sex So He Won’t Watch Porn

Don’t Tell Women to Have Sex So He Won’t Watch Porn

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 9, 2021 | Pornography

Telling a woman that the way she stops her husband from watching porn is to have sex with him is toxic.  I’m getting ready to pack up our RV and leave the campground. It’s been a great few weeks relaxing, knitting, and processing, and I’m...
Compassion for Anna Duggar–And How We Judge Success in Marriage

Compassion for Anna Duggar–And How We Judge Success in Marriage

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 30, 2021 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Josh Duggar has been arrested by the feds, and I’m so sad for Anna Duggar. I wasn’t going to write about this today, but it actually intersects with a number of things I’ve been thinking about this week, and I thought I could put them all in one...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!