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Are Obligation Sex and Marital Rape the Same Thing?

Are Obligation Sex and Marital Rape the Same Thing?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 18, 2023 | Abuse

Is all obligation sex necessarily rape? As we’ve been talking about obligation sex this month, starting with 10 things you need to know about obligation sex, and how obligation sex affects a woman’s body, there’s a conversation that keeps coming up on social media:...
When Universities Don’t Understand Consent: 7 Things Cedarville University Got wrong

When Universities Don’t Understand Consent: 7 Things Cedarville University Got wrong

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 28, 2023 | Parenting Teens

What happens when teenage girls don’t understand consent and coercion? They often blame themselves for their own date rape. In our consent chapter for She Deserves Better, we told Kay’s story–that all too many of you will relate to. Kay was making...
How to Reclaim Your Sexual Autonomy in Marriage

How to Reclaim Your Sexual Autonomy in Marriage

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 30, 2022 | Sexual Intimacy

If we want sex to be awesome, then we need to be able to feel like sex is for us too. We need to feel like we matter. Sex is supposed to be mutual, intimate, and pleasurable for both, and mutuality and intimacy means that you are both coming to the bedroom willingly,...
How Do You get Your Husband To Understand That He Coerced You Into Sex?

How Do You get Your Husband To Understand That He Coerced You Into Sex?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 28, 2022 | Abuse

If your  husband has been coercing you into sex, how do you get him to understand what he’s done? That’s the million dollar question, isn’t it? We’re in the middle of a series on what to do if one, or both, of you have dug your sex life into a...
Does 1 Corinthians 7 Say that She Has No Sexual Autonomy?

Does 1 Corinthians 7 Say that She Has No Sexual Autonomy?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 23, 2022 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

You will never have a healthy sex life if you don’t have autonomy over your own body. You just can’t. Unless you are free to say yes or to say no, desire can’t build, because desire and obligation are at odds with each other. Just as you can’t...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!