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What To Do If You’re a Victim of Marital Rape

What To Do If You’re a Victim of Marital Rape

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 16, 2022 | Abuse

There is little more devastating to a marriage than rape. This month, on the blog, we’re talking about how to recover from sexual problems in your marriage, and I want to spend this week talking about marital rape. On Monday, I talked about the dynamics in...
2 Kinds of Marital Rape that Evangelicalism (Inadvertently) Enables

2 Kinds of Marital Rape that Evangelicalism (Inadvertently) Enables

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 14, 2022 | Abuse

Marital rape is the story in all too many Christian marriages. When we analyzed the top 13 evangelical books for our book The Great Sex Rescue, there was one word that was missing from all of them: Consent. While several books did do a good job at talking about the...
Redefining Sex: Seeing Sex as an Expression of your Relationship, Not as an Individual Need

Redefining Sex: Seeing Sex as an Expression of your Relationship, Not as an Individual Need

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 2, 2022 | Sexual Intimacy

If we don’t put sex in its proper place, sex will become a drain on the relationship, rather than something that makes you feel closer. We’re working this month on how to dig out of the pit you’re in with your sex life, because many people have such...
Duty Sex Isn’t Sexy: Our Podcast Take 2!

Duty Sex Isn’t Sexy: Our Podcast Take 2!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 21, 2022 | Libido, Podcasts

Let’s talk obligation sex–and how it’s a terrible libido and marriage killer! This July I’m rerunning some of my favourite podcast episodes from about a year and a half ago or two years ago, to help those who have recently joined the podcast or...
Escaping a Sex Cult: Alyssa Wakefield’s Podcast Episode, Part 2

Escaping a Sex Cult: Alyssa Wakefield’s Podcast Episode, Part 2

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 16, 2022 | Abuse, Podcasts

Let’s face the fact that fundamentalist Christianity in North America is basically a sex cult. That’s Alyssa Wakefield’s conclusion in Part 2 of her story on the Bare Marriage podcast! Listen to last week’s episode, where she explains how she...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!