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Daniel Akin, President of Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary, Weaponizes 1 Corinthians 7 Against Women

Daniel Akin, President of Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary, Weaponizes 1 Corinthians 7 Against Women

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 3, 2022 | Libido

If you think 1 Corinthians 7:3-5 is a command for women to have sex on demand with their husbands, you’ve lost the plot. And not just that, but you have no business leading an SBC (Southern Baptist Convention) seminary where future SBC pastors are trained. But...
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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 23, 2022 | Libido, Making Sex Feel Good, Resolving Conflict, Sexual Intimacy

The most damaging belief we found on our survey of 20,000 women was the obligation sex message. Getting married believing that a wife was obligated to give her husband sex when he wanted it resulted in much higher rates of sexual pain, lower orgasm rates, and lower...
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Why is Focus on the Family Supporting Pressuring Wives to Send Nude Pictures?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 11, 2022 | Pornography

Yesterday Focus on the Family had Gary Thomas and Debra Fileta promoting their book Married Sex, and I’m just depressed. On Fridays I usually do a round-up of social media for the week, but I was awake so much last night in turmoil about this. At some point we...
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On my Friday Round-Ups I like to focus on things that have happened around the web on social media, because that’s where so much conversation takes place. And you can miss it if you only watch the blog! There are two big things from my own social media I want to...
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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 3, 2022 | Podcasts

Two weeks ago on the podcast we told you about a women who wrote in to Emerson Eggerichs of Love & Respect, saying she was crying in the shower before sex. She said that if she didn’t have sex with her husband, he would treat her very badly. His response?...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!