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Want Women Free of Sexual Shame? Stop Infantilizing Us!

Want Women Free of Sexual Shame? Stop Infantilizing Us!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 26, 2022 | Abuse, Theology of Marriage and Sex

We know that women have a huge problem with sexual shame. Many men do, too, of course! But let’s stick with women for a moment here, because when we were reading best-selling books to see trends of how they taught about sex, we noticed a pattern: Quite often men...
SEXUAL CONFIDENCE: How Can We Get Over Embarrassment About Being Female?

SEXUAL CONFIDENCE: How Can We Get Over Embarrassment About Being Female?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 20, 2021 | For Women

How can we feel sexually confident if we believe that our bodies are gross, objects of embarrassment, or something that makes us “less than”? For a woman to feel sexually confident, she has to feel that being a woman is a good thing, not a source of shame....
The Sexual Confidence Series: 3 Markers of a Sexually Confident Woman

The Sexual Confidence Series: 3 Markers of a Sexually Confident Woman

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 11, 2021 | Series

Sexual confidence can sound almost, well, scary, can’t it? Like it’s something we can never really live up to. A sexually confident woman is someone who is totally okay with her body; totally orgasmic; totally cool telling  her husband what she wants in...
Why Exploring Your Pelvic Floor (and Genitalia!) is Crucial to Your Health and Your Sex Life

Why Exploring Your Pelvic Floor (and Genitalia!) is Crucial to Your Health and Your Sex Life

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 15, 2021 | For Women

What do you know about your pelvic floor? During the month of June we’re talking about pelvic floor issues.  We looked at postpartum recovery, what to expect from a pelvic floor physiotherapist appointment, and the main causes of vaginismus. Today, Bethany...
Do Christians Still Think Sex is Bad? The Contagion Theory of Sexuality

Do Christians Still Think Sex is Bad? The Contagion Theory of Sexuality

by Keith Gregoire | Apr 19, 2021 | Faith

Sheila here for a moment. The whole time I was writing The Great Sex Rescue, and combing through the materials for terrible quotes, and becoming quite upset about how awful some of them were, Keith took it all in stride. He kept saying, “yes, Sheila, but the...
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Have you ever noticed that a lot of common Christian sex advice just sounds really icky?

Sex is supposed to be great. Like, really great. So great that it’s hard to keep your hands off each other great. 

So why do so many Christian marriage books present it as another chore to check off of a woman’s to-do list? 

Why do so many Christian sex books portray men as doomed to sexual deviancy? 

We’re on a mission to change the conversation about sex in evangelical spaces. And to do that, we started by scoring our current best-sellers based on a Healthy Sexuality Scorecard. 

Want to see how your favourite book scored? 

You can download the rubric and scorecard (including quotes that explain the score) here, for free!

Get the rubric and scorecard--for free!